The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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  1. Nutz

    Why are 85% of women AIRHEADS?

    I fully endorse this post. Been there a bazillion times myself. Think of it another way, which is what I tell guys who are dealing wtih flakes since this is essentially the same thing... If a girl met her favorite celeb or musician or whatever in line at Starbucks and was invited to hang out...
  2. Nutz

    You will learn when you get married....

    Here's a simple way to get started. Whenever a woman asks you to do something, which she's assuming you'll just do because she's a woman and is entitled to having her way after all otherwise she's biitch and moan, just say this magic line: "I'll think about it." Later on you can learn the...
  3. Nutz

    24 yrs down the drain

    Looked it up and it doesn't have very good reviews on Amazon, but don't go by those this time around. Glad I dug a little deeper, the ones complaining were the women, so that tells me he did something right :up: Also, they have two listings for the book and I'm not sure which is the correct one...
  4. Nutz

    you know what gets to me more than anything?

    I used to be that guy. I succumbed to the social pressure that the women I was truly attracted to were out of my league. I settled and married a woman that didn't make me happen all because of crap social pressures. Eventually I grew up in a sense and chucked that part of my life. I got good...
  5. Nutz

    Chicks with Kids

    And it doesn't get any better in your early 30s. In fact even more are with baggage. Thank god I live by a college town.
  6. Nutz

    article: What's Happening To Women's Happiness?

    Werd! This really boils it all down nicely. It's long, but a quick read: http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/08/24/the-feminism-problem-part-i/ http://www.datingsecretsformen.com/2009/09/03/the-feminism-problem-part-ii/
  7. Nutz

    Australian men starting to get it?

    Banned or not that was a pretty funny post. Anyway, I wonder if this sort of stuff will happen in the US any time soon? I suppose it's already happening a little bit, but not to the point I'd like to see. Women got equality, which turned into lopsided entitlement (having their cake and...
  8. Nutz

    article: What's Happening To Women's Happiness?

    What I got out of that was that she described becoming a man and realizing it's not all it's cracked up to be.
  9. Nutz

    Women

    That was pretty damn funny :D
  10. Nutz

    Female Friends

    Female friends will get you laid way more than having male friends. Going out with 5-10 HBs in tow is massive when going out to bars & clubs. When other women see you rolling into a venue like that they get curious and think. The more they're thinking about you the more they're investing. The...
  11. Nutz

    How can I start getting the 9-10s?

    Game will only get you girls your level or below. Good game will get you girls a point or two above. If you want the 9s & 10s then quite frankly you're going to have to be an 8 yourself.
  12. Nutz

    DIGITS or NUMBER?

    It depends. Some women think they're having a normal conversation and then if a guy out of the blue asks for her number it can sometimes spoil the interaction when she thinks, "Oh, that's all he's interested in..." or something to that effect. Asking for a phone number is something guys do when...
  13. Nutz

    DIGITS or NUMBER?

    Correction: it's NOT paying attention to details such as this that can frak up your game. Blatantly asking for her number can set off red flags and make it feel like a pickup. If you were going indirect that's going to really work against you.
  14. Nutz

    Would you write this one off and move on?

    That's an interesting suggestion. I'll have to file that one away for the future. Here's a tip I picked up from AFC Adam a few weeks ago. The morning of your planned date, text her the following: "Just a heads-up I've got meetings all day and I'll be a few minutes late. Is that okay?" If...
  15. Nutz

    DIGITS or NUMBER?

    Neither. When you ask for her number, regardless of how you say it, alarm bells will go off in her head that you're trying to pick her up. Instead try this... "What's a good way of keeping in touch?" Now she's offering up a way to keep in contact, so in her mind it's HER idea to give you...
  16. Nutz

    Have U Seen This------

    I said it before in the looks vs game thread that game will only get you a point or two above your nominal level of attractiveness. That level isn't totally reliant on your physical appearance, but it certainly plays a part.
  17. Nutz

    Moral dilemma; Slutty high school girl when your in your early to mid twenties?

    Popular misconception. 18 is legal age of adulthood, but age of consent in most states is 16 in the US. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ages_of_consent_in_North_America
  18. Nutz

    I am done......Absolutely ridiculous...

    No argument there! My advice is to call her up. If you get the voicemail this is all you say. "Hey, it's Trent. Talk to you later." Nothing more, nothing less. And practice it a bunch so you aren't all nervous when you call. Once you get it right and you should sound like you're...
  19. Nutz

    so now fat chicks are beautiful ... msn article .. wtf?!?

    I wouldn't say she's fat at all. However, if I saw that flap hanging over her stomach I wouldn't hit it though. Looks like she used to be huge and dropped a ton of weight and needs the excess skin removed.
  20. Nutz

    did 30 min today, no numbers

    :shakes head: So many things you're doing wrong with this kind of approach. Rule #1: Never make it look, feel, or seem like you're hitting on them. Rule #2: If they're not comfortable talking to you BEFORE you approach, you're fighting and uphill battle. The exception to Rule #1 is the...
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