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Its hard to quantify how long we were "going out". We started talking a lot and became close friends for a year and a half before we ever met. Then there was a year from the time I first went to see her until I moved to live with her. By the time I moved we had probably spent about 100x more...

She was perfect at first. I don't know how I could have seen this coming. In my mind I wasn't settling, I thought I had found a diamond in the rough. She was my absolute ideal woman, and I thought we were going to grow old together. There was no way to learn from her history because she didn't...

Also I just want to thank everybody for their replies. The support really means a lot. It's nice to know there is a place where I can talk to guys who understand what I'm going through and can help.

I think she's extremely insecure. She needs validation from other men...getting it from me wasn't enough. I know I wasn't perfect. I know I made mistakes. I wasn't in control like I should have been. I just wasn't man enough. Also not too long after we got married I started a business that...

The divorce isn't final, but we don't have kids. Not being able to get her pregnant has been one cause of the problems we have, that's probably been a blessing in disguise. I'm still forced to see her but I'm not going to speak to her about anything other than the divorce Before we got...

You're quite right. This happened to me about 3 years ago. We are now getting divorced. This was the first crack in the marriage that I noticed, and just wanted to know what my course of action should have been. I didn't really know how to react so I just let it go. This just resulted in more...

Thanks for the replies. I didn't reply right away but I read them and took them to heart. The last 5 or 6 weeks have had some ups and downs. I'd say I'm doing slightly better than I was when I made the original post. I still have some forced contact with my wife, and she loves to **** with my...

Scenario: Your wife tells you that a guy at work has been hitting on her very hard, and even proposed that they have sex at work and keep it a secret. How would you proceed? If the first thing you'd do is ask her to tell you his name: She says she won't tell you because she doesn't want...

Yeah, women love when creepy random strangers on the internet.

I'm 31, and getting divorced. I moved to California from the east coast almost 6 years ago to be with her. I was very close with her family, and all of my friends came from her social circle. Without her I have no friends here, no family here. I'm just alone. I'm self employed and work alone. I...