The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    HB8 coming over to watch movie

    I'd totally drop this chick fast (awhile ago actually, by this behavior) but if a learning experience can be had...I say go for it. I did this once before when I didn't know any better and learned a helluva lot from the experience.
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    HB8 coming over to watch movie

    so freakin what if she's not responding to a text right away. you gotta learn to not give a $hit. ask yourself this.....what's my hurry? exactly. there isn't one.
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    a very controversial conclusion

    Last sunday going into the local coffee shop for an espresso, I was floored by an athletic, short shorts wearing hot college grad. smokin hot. a full 10 natural beauty to be sure. she was accompanied by the aforementioned. might have been just friends, but it was one of those moments where...
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    a very controversial conclusion

    very true in my experience. I used to be duller than a rock (in my 20's-early 30's), but I found the forum, made some improvements and learned how to push those buttons. Been getting more dates the last couple of years then ever before. I learned all of that here then applied it.
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    a very controversial conclusion

    I'm 5' 7" (too short for a lot of women, even the midget girls ha ha) In pretty good shape. (ripped in 2009 but gained 10lbs since) I dress well. Not over the top, but well and I have black/silver hair about 4 inches in length. I'm always clean and spritz a slight amount of cologne. Women...
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    this is a clear uninterested girl wanting my attention right?

    you already said "have to next." when you make a decision, no matter how painful/regretful....stick to it. It's part of being a true man.
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    a very controversial conclusion

    your right...it's not cool at all. And I ditch them right quick the second I realize that. both my current plates are hot and not money grubbing at all. but there are tons of them out there who are gold diggers. Don't give up. There are beautiful decent women out there...rare yes...but they...
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    a very controversial conclusion

    I don't know about "very controversial." It's your opinion. Have you not seen fat ugly pig dudes with fine women that were not hookers? I have. The bottom line is: If that's what you believe, that's what your reality will be. Sure, I've had my share of average HB5s. Right now I have 2...
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    Nice girl, but another fade away?

    WAY TOO MUCH OVER THINKING my friend. This sounds completely normal to me and you're doing very well with her actually. You don't want to communicate too much between initial dates getting to know each other. THATS what the date is for. Keep the mystery. Only reason to think things are "not...
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    "Text me"

    text her. often women say "call me" after a good first date, but they mean text. I have limited minutes and like to text, but thats just me. I've dated some who prefer texting over calls for the same reason.
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    Ways to handle 'the talk'?

    VERY well played brother. I'm using that next time it happens. Please keep us updated if she brings it up again in a week or two. It might have tided her over in the moment. But maybe permanently.
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    Ways to handle 'the talk'?

    Same EXACT thing happened to me at the same time, but the talk was in March. I didn't have plates again until July though.
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    She flaked and the 2hrs later texted excuse?

    We don't wait and make the counter offer to our offer. Any woman with interest will make the counter offer. PERIOD. No counter offer = zero interest / wasting your time trying. Keep trying = she knows you're an optionless doormat to be $hit on / feed her ego. NEXT
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    The psychological view behind flaking.

    Absolutely! Those are the distilled in purity facts of this case.
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    Cut your flake rate in half by introducing instadates!

    No. This wouldn't work with someone new/getting to know and it sort of reeks of needy/clingy behavior.
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    The psychological view behind flaking.

    Flaking isn't declining a date. It's not getting back to you when she said she would or low interest level. or making agreed on plans for meeting up then choosing not to for whatever reason. Bottom line is, if a girl cancels plans or can't agree on a plan WITHOUT making a counter...
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    Sofomore's POF profile tip for improving inbox replies

    Added to my profile. Thanks!
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    HB8 coming over to watch movie

    pyros, just go for it man. I would have said next, but reading further and Bradd's suggestion of practice, why not just keep it going. You should be hunting for other options now as well, so if this doesn't work out you have a backup plan. Always have a backup plan.
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    young women in their 20s dating old men?

    From my experience some of that is indeed Daddy Issues.
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    we been dating for 2 months... what's next?

    ya don't talk about it or seek an explanation from her. that will kill any interest fast. Show her a great time, then just go for it.
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