The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    FOR THE SAKE OF MY SON....please help!!...

    DonJuanForever nailed it: You have GOT to get a life outside of her. Otherwise she owns you and believe me she knows it. The most important thing in all of this is what to do about the kid? If you choose to stay involved in his life then you will have to deal with her for 20 freaking years! Can...
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    A friend, whom I am in love with, is sleeping metres away!

    Since your in the friendzone, use it. She's got to have friends, hopefully at least one hot one? Your "friend" is your social proof, your automatic pass to her friends. Weirdly enough, when you ask her to introduce you to some of her friends she might look at you a little differently. You can't...
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    Age Gap for Making Friends and or dating

    Maturity level, yours and hers are what matter.
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    FR: Beach approach

    Situation #1: Very good. I'm guessing you read her embarrassment and stepping away as lack of interest, or confusing at best. You do have to assume she's interested until proven otherwise. And how to do that: go for e-mail and/or digits. Situation #2: Cold approaching is hard, and half/naked...
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    User names [Merged]

    Skateboarding: When you grind your truck (the "axel" of a skateboard) on the edge of anything you are grinding.
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    Would you ever approach a fat girl ?

    I just saw Le Parisien's post with the progressions journal of the girl. How far up the charts would you do her? I'm in up to 146 lbs. For those seeking a LTR this chart usually starts at 120 and goes UP! LOL You then have to decide how far up you let her go before you bail.
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    Would you ever approach a fat girl ?

    Yes. I do approach for practice. No digit close though. Like self-mastery says, the idea is to be social, get comfortable chatting up anyone. Its a good way to warm up for other approaches.
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    Summer Approach Journal

    As you try more approaches, try varying the style. Personally, I have better results with David D's trick of going for the e-mail address (less thretening) first, then after she's about halfway through writing the address say "Put your phone number down too".
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    Play Where You Work - How Dumb Is It?

    Ok, I would like to expand this thread as I think some very good advice has been given on staying the hell away from women you work with directly. Again, personal interest here, but what if you were in a semi-small office building with about 10 separate businesses there and their were a few...
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    women with kids?

    Will you PLEASE, PLEASE, get off of the race issue. What we are dealing with here people, is an ALIEN SPECIES issue. Female units are from an entirely different genetic plane of existence. Their brains were created on REMULAC. They mock you at every turn, laugh at your obviously childish...
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    Summer Approach Journal

    This is excellent. keep it up. I remember jwhite caught some flak for asking them if they were single first but it turned out to be a great interest level filter. Everyone has their own way.
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    Final exams, or Falling interest?

    It might seem hard to be happy now. But just think if you HAD married her. Going through this sh*t month after month. You'd be clinically depressed. You dodged a bullet. My advice: don't forget about it. Learn from it.
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    for you hardcore AFC's... change may be gradual!

    I think the longer you have been an AFC to harder it is. I am older so I've been a dumbass longer than most. SELF-MASTERY is right, you can read 'til your eyeballs fall out, but it don't mean jack 'til you get out there and do it. The systems are great tools, and sort-of training wheels to...
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    Balling a married woman

    A cult would be great. Just let me mix up the "chump-aide". The cups will have a special little message that states: "Drink this and you will find your one true soulmate...". Of course, the DJ's won't drink it. Francisco, shouldn't you be getting ready for Church so you can score some...
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    Balling a married woman

    This is a hella good thread. What we have established here is: Francisco is the worst, most evil person ever because: 1) He MAKES all women cheat on their husbands by chasing them mercilessly. 2) He ruins relationships and families. 3) Makes little children grow up in broken...
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    What if your wife got into your computer

    Usually most people can't hack windows. It can be done, just not easy. Main thing is to make sure she cannot actually login at all on your computer. Ok, enough techno talk or this thread will get moved to another section. Others will want, I think, to comment on the cheating part of this...
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    What if your wife got into your computer

    If you are using WinXP or 2K and don't have it set to use ctrl-alt-del to logon then do that and change your friggin password. Put a password on your screensaver so if you forget to logoff she can't get into it. And if she has an account on your computer, delete it! But if she knows your...
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    for you hardcore AFC's... change may be gradual!

    So true about change taking time. It took years and years of social programming to turn us into chumps and unlearning all that crap will take time. I came to this site totally by accident 6mo ago trying to figure out how to get over a single (bad) case of oneitis. At first I thought, "Oh...
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    suggestion for Mr Sosuave

    I'm hoping Mr. SoSuave is dusting off his handy-dandy DNS tools and can track and ban the entire subnet from the source for a while. File a petition under CAN SPAM act and get the ISP to ban the user....but that would be mean wounldn't it?
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    What the ****, my post gets deleted for NO reason???

    No Escape: I get where you are comming from; some. If we were already true DJ's, we would not be here at all. We would have "ascended" beyond the need to be here. I see people come here in pretty bad shape from some being ran over by ******. Lots of angry feelings, confusing feelings...
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