The Ultimate Guide to Success with Women

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    Do the rules change for average chicks?

    Over the years I have come to realise that I prefer the sweet, girl next door sort of girl. The 6s of this world who are pretty but far from perfect and very down to earth. I like them slightly shy (I find hot, arrogant chicks emasculating) and often a little bit geeky in a cute sort of way...
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    Cool and indifferent v warm and friendly

    Good points everyone. I tend to fit more into the cool, indifferent type, but am lacking in the charm department and rarely smile and feel this is an area I need to work on. But part of me feels that it is rather effeminate to be smiling all the time and being too enthusiastic and emotional. I...
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    Cool and indifferent v warm and friendly

    An issue that has always confused me is whether women prefer the cool, indifferent, and unemotional type (e.g James Bond) or the warm, friendly and charming, smiley type. David D always recommends the former category, saying it is best to act as if you are disinterested and not particularly...
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    Is there hope for quiet, sensitive guys

    Thanks guys, things are slowly starting to fit into place. I can see now that I do tend to avoid risk and wait for the women to show interest rather than being bolder and asking for the number anyway. Will fix this right away. While I work out a lot, I think I will join a sports team so...
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    Is there hope for quiet, sensitive guys

    lol, hollowpoint. Perhaps I was bordering on giving too much information. I agree with jt47319 about the C and F being incongruent, as I currently lack the arrogant confidence to pull it off. I also agree I need to work on becoming more sexual-I have rather effeminate, boyish features that...
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    Is there hope for quiet, sensitive guys

    ****y and funny does not really work in the UK and especially not for my personality-girls just see straight through it, and think you are trying to be offensive. Having said that I do get good responses when I mildly tease them in a friendly way. Yes, I suppose some girls do find me a bit...
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    Is there hope for quiet, sensitive guys

    Hullo, I am a quiet, sensitive, intellectual, mild mannered and polite. I am average looking but from a lot of effort I have a good physique and am naturally tall and lean. I also went to a all male school and have never been totally comfortable with girls. I am 20 and have never had a...
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    Who gets the most girls? Mysterious & quiet, or funny & talkative guy?

    The problem with the mysterious quiet guy act is that it only works if you have prolonged contact with a girl through work or other activities. This type tends to meet far fewer girls than the funny, outgoing guys who have the social skills to meet lots of girls thus increasing their chances of...
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    Anti-Dump's Machine (Part I: Interest Level)

    I'm curious, once a high interest level is established does it dissipitate over time? To give you some context. This girl was really interested in me this summer at work: smiling at me, saying how she knew she liked me when I gave a a rare compliment, accidentally brushing past me, and when I...
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    Anti-Dump's Machine (Part 3: You BUY a relationship, not BUILD one)

    Wow! Another thoughtful instillation installment of ADs Philosophy. These post have totally revolutionised my approach to women. Before I looked for girls who I thought were hot and pursued them even though they barely gave me the time of day, and some of them manipulated me a fair deal. Looking...
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    Boston DJ's

    I Im coming to Boston in September and was wondering if any Boston DJs wanted to meet up and go hunting for girls with me? I was going to drop by at one of the universities, so if anyone from Harvard or Yale is here that would be cool. Thanks Matthew
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    UK DJ Meetup!

    Name:Matt Rogers Sex:Male Age:19 Level:RAFC (hampered mostly by shyness rather than clingy, overnice behaviour) County:Warwickshire Country:England Email:M.Rogers.1@warwick.ac.uk Messenger:MSN
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    Cruel Intentions

    I am not so sure the character Sebastien is a DJ role model either. Rather than attract girls by the merit of his character, and confidence, he seduces girls by playing an act to manipulate their emotions and get them hooked. Some of his early behaviour is dishonest and immoral, and you can...
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    Are girls impressed by intelligent guys?

    I think it is what you do with your intelligence that counts. If you are smart, but spend your time doing nuclear physics and cannot continue a conversation about anything outside your narrow field of expertise, that will not help you a lot with women. If on the other hand, you are able to...
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    Do English girls need to be Dj'd differently?

    Most of my friends tend to meet their girlfriends through mutual friends, on an introduction basis. I think that goes on a lot more in the UK. Plus it is true that clubs and bars are a lot easier, although if you are on the quiet side like me, this is a nuisance, as I do not often frequent these...
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    My personal boot camp

    Girl number nine: Not really a stranger, but amusing incident so I will include it anyway. This was a girl at work, who had commented earlier she was going to Brighton with a friend. I commented in a teasing manner on how she had obviously caught the sun (she hadn't and she knew it). She...
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    Do English girls need to be Dj'd differently?

    Interesting. I have just started a bootcamp in London, and usually women respond reasonably. As long as you have a reasonable excuse for talking to her, or just comment on something in your shared environment, they seem to be happy to go along with it. Best, if they are not obviously busy, or in...
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    My personal boot camp

    Mmm. I tend to avoid the girls who look either stuck up, slutty, or weird, as I reckon there is no point practicing on people who are not going to respond too well, and I would not be interested in anyway. Sorry I am being a bit lazy about updating. Girl number 7 Outside the bookshop...
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    Fear of Rejection- How to kick it

    Good tips, Clint. Another thing that helps is taking the attitude of this is just practice, such that win or lose it does not matter. If you are going into the game desperate to get a girlfriend there is a lot more pressure on you that when you are just practising approaching women and seeing...
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    My personal boot camp

    Girl number 4: Tanned blonde around a 7.5 Location on the train. She was coughing and sneezing a lot, so I commented on that being a nasty cough she had, and she should be taking the day off work. She found this quite amusing, and said her boss would never believe her as she had just come back...
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