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    you are financially broke and want to meet girls

    I'm 33 years old and homeless! ...with two, soon to be three jobs. But, I have one plate that is begging me to stay with her. Yet, I'm staying with another, rent free. The plate I'm staying with frequently tells me: "I don't want to feel obligated because I'm letting you stay here, you're...
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    This is moving fast!

    Of course YOU wouldn't see them. Yes, it has.
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    How to know when you are not ready for a relationship?

    I considered expounding more on a couple of potential perceptions. That is, I almost sugar-coated and added some disclaimers. Then I remembered that here, in this forum, filled with men helping men, certain things are a given. I can intentionally bias posts because I'm not trying to impress...
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    "Anti-Slut Defense", curious to hear it from the woman's perspective

    I agree, excellent post! This is very appropriate for the Mature Man forum. Yes, there are "overcoming ASD" topics, but, the obvious question is "why would you?" Do you need a piece of tail? Or, are you selecting a partner? Looking back, I rarely have ever encountered ASD. And, those...
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    This is moving fast!

    There is a difference between "hurt" and "psychological abuse".
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    How to know when you are not ready for a relationship?

    BeyondCharm, put your age in your profile, otherwise you risk your posts being deleted. I'm going to side with STR8UP, here. Girls are raised from children to cultivate relationships. They play with dolls, have tea parties with friends, and are encouraged to socialize. Boys, on the...
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    This is moving fast!

    Fast? Instense? Four weeks and she's told the world? Too good to be true? Read this thread, now, all of it. The indicators are screaming "BPD!" I could be wrong, of course, but, arm yourself and be very afraid, dude. I see SEVERAL indications. Read up and pay close attention...
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    How to know when you are not ready for a relationship?

    Amen. Next time, correct them. THEY aren't "ready for a relationship" with YOU. Don't accept opinions or perceptions as true, and, don't let a woman's personal attacks (no matter how sneaky or well worded they are) be seen as anything but their own low self esteem creeping out. Wømanese...
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    You Will Always Pay for Sex

    Which is precisely why my prostitution career isn't taking off.:(
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    You Will Always Pay for Sex

    I've acknowledged the value of sex shortly after coming to this site. I can't deny that sex has a price tag, and if you think about it, you can work out the actual cost in dollars. Rent, clothes, effort broken down at an hourly rate, dates, cologne, gas, etc. can all be factored at some extent...
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    How do you get rid of a BPD woman?

    UGGhhh... *sigh* My name's Vulpine, and, I have an ex who is BPD. I wish I spotted this thread about two years ago. I only wanted to contribute (or agree with previously mentioned but easily noticed) a few experiences to help. I was still fairly fresh in my DJ evolution, and this...
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    Women and Accountability

    infallible; adj. incapable of making mistakes or being wrong STR8UP, this comes up over and over again with, not only women, but most modern people. I believe it ties in to the victim mentalities that people love to have. With women interaction, when I encounter this sort of passing blame...
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    Financially Unsuccessful Guy Facing Crisis in Confidence With Women

    There is something to be said here about "internal validation versus external validation". How do you measure success? If you are using someone else's gauge, then the odds are, you'll be miserable as you will seemingly NEVER measure up. This is how media and marketing works, by the way...
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    Compensation

    If you mean "knowledge"... I would say people are reading the board to learn things they did not know. I wouldn't say men aren't good with women naturally, and that they need to compensate with knowledge, however. Instead, I would say that societal influences have interfered with a...
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    Compensation

    "Be weary of the company you keep." It has been something I kept in mind for a long time. But, in regards to becoming a "DJ", sometimes it's overlooked. We tend to look at obstacles and roadblocks to justify our failures. Instead, we should look for justification for our success. It's a...
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    Okay, so I'm a bastard....

    Someone said on here "if you aren't ƒucking her, someone else is". RT? Man, now that I read your last replies, STR8UP, this chick has a certain stink that would put off Pepe Le Pew. That "Rose" chick I was messing with played this sort of game with me in the beginning. Essentially, it...
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    FR: New kid in town - the rebirth of Vulpine

    The details? Read the post above yours. Borderline Personality Disorder, dude. She just flat-out couldn't control herself. She didn't "cheat" on me with another dude, though. I started to become fed up with certain behaviors and began noticing more and more unacceptable behaviors. Under...
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    Case Report: Formal apology or let it go?

    You've apologized. If she wants to make a big fuss, remind her that you already apologized and point out that she would just be a b¡tch for beating you over the head with something you've already apologized for... then change the subject and move on.
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    Treating your plates right

    "Plates" or "FB's"? Plates have potential, and are treated differently (better) than FB's that have proved to have no potential and have been reduced to "functional". Plates I'll hang around for, FB's I hit and split. FB's are essentially plates that spin themselves in order to get...
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    Okay, so I'm a bastard....

    lol@Latinoman Sometimes, STR8UP, your posts are like reading little blurbs from my own experiences. I've come to the same crossroads many times: do I go for the lay (because I want to), or, do I go with what I know? I know you want to bang this chick, but, I also think you miss the fact...
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