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  1. J

    What up yall. guess this happens to the best of us..maybe need a dif point of view.

    ...Is this really how you run your game?
  2. J

    College guys share you experience w girls so far this semester.

    I had an outdoor class assignment today with a group of kids from one of my classes. Turned out to be me, one other guy, and 11 girls all sitting in a circle talking about art/beauty. I had them all laughing and was trying to pace/lead things while being cool in the process. I probably came...
  3. J

    did 30 min today, no numbers

    You need to work on building some chemistry/attraction before you directly ask for the number. But congrats on manning up and taking the time and initiative to approach.
  4. J

    Alright So, Some Nice Work Put Me in A Good postion. Let's Discuss it(Laced with tips

    I think this story proves the point that you usually end up in favorable #-closing situations when you least expect it. When I'm out with #-closing in mind, I pysch myself out to much. When I'm just busy living my life and doing my thing, THAT's when I incidentally end up running into girls...
  5. J

    Got a date. Some pointers would rock.

    Yeah I mean I figured since I put down $16 for a dinky mini-golf course she could pony up $5 for some ice cream. It worked out really well.
  6. J

    Got a date. Some pointers would rock.

    If you do the "loser buys dessert" thing make sure that she actually loses. I pulled this one off a couple weeks ago playing mini-golf and my date made a comeback when I was getting lazy after being up big thru the first 9 holes. I ended up only beating her by 1 stroke.
  7. J

    Please HELP me. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.

    Check this read out. It's short and to-the-point on getting your act together: http://www.scribd.com/doc/18456472/Virgin
  8. J

    Don't want to be in a relationship, but don't want to lose her..

    I'm in an extremely similar situation. My hesitation is based on the fact that it would have to be a LDR, as I'm two states away. It seems like LDR's always inevitably fail, so I just don't want it to be all-out official because it's so hard be far apart but still maintain that intimate loyalty.
  9. J

    I'm moved into college but my roomate is an *******

    So true haha.
  10. J

    I'm moved into college but my roomate is an *******

    I rolled over almost every night last year to seeing one of my roommates jacking off to porn all night on his 23" monitor. He never left the room except for class (then he'd come straight back as if being outdoors was killing him rapidly) Never even used headphones for anything he did on his...
  11. J

    no action because of whitey tighties

    The only people I know who wear tighty-whiteys are men over 40 or serious social rejects. I'm assuming you're not over 40, so don't get lumped in with that other crowd.
  12. J

    American Girls Are Easy

    Fact: American girls are obsessed with foreign guys and their accents.
  13. J

    never again a morning date

    If you're going to go on a morning date, I think preparation the night before is going to be important. If you felt drowsy, was it because you stayed up too late? Did you have time to eat a good meal before you went out? I wouldn't prefer a morning date, but if it were my only option, I...
  14. J

    Someone help me over my anxiety about kiss-closing!

    I don't know why, but I've always felt that kissing is more something that you just make happen through body language than by asking her directly. I've never done it by asking them straight-up like that...perhaps a try is in order :/
  15. J

    Someone help me over my anxiety about kiss-closing!

    So quick background...I moved out to a new city for the summer and have had a blast working a seasonal job and staying at my cousins' house on a lake. I've had a really great attitude about going out and making all kinds of new friends...and it was really a challenge for me to change like...
  16. J

    I'm very unhappy with my sex life.

    I understand where you're coming from on feeling alone with little or no friends. I moved to a new city two states away just for the summer, where I had a seasonal job and a couple of summer college classes lined up. The only people I knew coming in were my cousins that I was going to be living...
  17. J

    How did I get this girl????

    I've had similar situations with girls just out of relationships...they act totally into me, want to hang out constantly, lots of IOI's, but then when I make a move, I get the LJBF speech. After saying they're not "looking for a relationship now," they go and get a new boyfriend (not me) within...
  18. J

    lying about ur virgininty

    Girl: are you a virgin? You: I'll let you decide for yourself afterwards
  19. J

    Benched 200 tonight (this may become a journal for a guy without a gym pass)

    I'm with you in that I find basketball to be way more fun than simply running/jogging/other boring cardio. And I'm not a huge believer in P90X but Ab Ripper X is awesome.
  20. J

    Major fail last night

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