I'm feeling depressed. I'm turning twenty-five tomorrow and really don't want to live anymore. Pathetic, I know. I really don't want to die but I feel so down right now.
I have no one in my life to talk about sex/relationship problems. I'm relying on you guys to address each of the problems I'm facing. You may not have any experience with problem #1 but know all about problem #3. Feel free to address the problem you're most familiar with.
PM me your answers if you rather to answer that way.
The overall reason why I'm feeling down. I don't have any women in my life. The only time I had sex with a girl is when I paid her (escorts). Yeah, I've had sex with over 25 women but never had sex with a girl because she liked me. I never had sex with a girl who had strong feelings for me.
PROBLEM #1:
I don't approach women. I probably started one conversation with a girl in the past 6 months. I'm not counting conversations with girls in forced social situations. I'm talking about seeing a girl I like and approaching.
Why don't I approach? It's the facial expressions, body language, and overall demeanor of attractive girls in public. They all walk around like they're pissed at the world. The girls that do look happy and approachable are holding hands with a guy or with their girlfriends.
I don't get nervous when thinking about approaching a girl. I just don't have the desire because she looks like a miserable ***** who thinks she's better than everyone else.
Can anybody help me with this problem? How can I put her body language and negative demeanor out of my mind? Any tricks?
PROBLEM #2
I feel like I'm cursed. The average girl hates me. Let me explain.
An example would be I'm standing in line at the drug store and the female cashier says "have a good day" to three customers ahead of me. After I pay for my stuff and say thank you, the female cashier won't say anything back and she definitely doesn't say "have a good day". This doesn't just happen once in a while, I notice this with every female cashier that's attractive and/or young. If they're older (40+), they're normally nice.
Why would cashiers ignore me while they didn't ignore everyone else? This doesn't apply to male cashiers. Only girls who are young and/or attractive. It's like they turn cold, don't want to make eye contact as soon as I step up.
PROBLEM #3
Ugly and fat girls find me attractive. I get several messages online from these type of girls and never any messages from attractive girls. I'm talking about when a girl makes first contact.
Why do ugly/fat girls make first contact, but never an attractive girl? If I'm being solicited by these type of unappealing females, does this mean I'm ugly too and not attractive to hotter girls?
PROBLEM #4
I'm very depressed because I have no female presence in my life. If I wanted to get laid tonight, it would have to be through an escort.
However, I will never attract girls being depressed. They want guys who are entertaining and fun to be around.
How can I be happy and laugh and smile when I'm really hurting inside? Sure, I can do something that I like and feel better for a little while. But it's only temporary. When it's time to go to bed and once again I'm alone again, my depression sets in.
People say having a girl won't make you happy, but in my case I think it will. If I had a girlfriend (or just a **** buddy) and was having sex regularly (regularly for me is anything greater than two times per year), I would feel more confident and the stuff I'm interested in will become interesting again since I'm not depressed about being alone.
PROBLEM 5:
I'm reading the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss and some of the stories he wrote in that book really blows my mind. I didn't know girls will **** a man so fast and do such perverse sh*t since all you hear from women is commitment, love, etc.
Since joining this community, I don't view women the same. I feel as though all women will cheat and **** a guy in a club bathroom if given the chance. This depresses me. I don't care too much about a girl's past, but if she's my girlfriend and I know all it takes is for some PUA to seduce her, it depresses me. I want to have fun and have lots of sex, but if I want a LTR, I expect no cheating. And I don't think that will be the case with 95% of the women and I don't know how I would react if I find out she swallowed another guy's c*m.
Will most girls cheat if given the chance?
PROBLEM 6:
I can get a girl to agree to a first date (I'm strictly speaking about girls I meet online. Again, I don't approach in real life. See problem #1.
I always thought when you meet a girl online, the first date isn't really a date but like a way for her to see you're not a killer. So, I never set a date that's far from where she lives or request to pick her up. I also don't kino or end the date with a kiss because that's the first time we're meeting.
But now after reading the book "The Game" and other stuff online, it seems like girls are incredibly fast today. They want you to kiss or they won't answer their phone/text ever again. It's the total opposite than what girls say online.
I never score any second dates because I have the game totally messed up. Even if we met online, she expects me touch her and end the date with a kiss or else the date never even happened.
Is this correct? If so, no wonder the girl I met on Saturday ignored my call and text two days ago.
I know there has to be people in this community who felt the same way and experience the same things and have overcome these (and other) problems. I need your HELP.
Please don't just view this thread without responding if you can motivate me.
Feel free to PM me if you have words of wisdom about one or all of my problems.
I have no one in my life to talk about sex/relationship problems. I'm relying on you guys to address each of the problems I'm facing. You may not have any experience with problem #1 but know all about problem #3. Feel free to address the problem you're most familiar with.
PM me your answers if you rather to answer that way.
The overall reason why I'm feeling down. I don't have any women in my life. The only time I had sex with a girl is when I paid her (escorts). Yeah, I've had sex with over 25 women but never had sex with a girl because she liked me. I never had sex with a girl who had strong feelings for me.
PROBLEM #1:
I don't approach women. I probably started one conversation with a girl in the past 6 months. I'm not counting conversations with girls in forced social situations. I'm talking about seeing a girl I like and approaching.
Why don't I approach? It's the facial expressions, body language, and overall demeanor of attractive girls in public. They all walk around like they're pissed at the world. The girls that do look happy and approachable are holding hands with a guy or with their girlfriends.
I don't get nervous when thinking about approaching a girl. I just don't have the desire because she looks like a miserable ***** who thinks she's better than everyone else.
Can anybody help me with this problem? How can I put her body language and negative demeanor out of my mind? Any tricks?
PROBLEM #2
I feel like I'm cursed. The average girl hates me. Let me explain.
An example would be I'm standing in line at the drug store and the female cashier says "have a good day" to three customers ahead of me. After I pay for my stuff and say thank you, the female cashier won't say anything back and she definitely doesn't say "have a good day". This doesn't just happen once in a while, I notice this with every female cashier that's attractive and/or young. If they're older (40+), they're normally nice.
Why would cashiers ignore me while they didn't ignore everyone else? This doesn't apply to male cashiers. Only girls who are young and/or attractive. It's like they turn cold, don't want to make eye contact as soon as I step up.
PROBLEM #3
Ugly and fat girls find me attractive. I get several messages online from these type of girls and never any messages from attractive girls. I'm talking about when a girl makes first contact.
Why do ugly/fat girls make first contact, but never an attractive girl? If I'm being solicited by these type of unappealing females, does this mean I'm ugly too and not attractive to hotter girls?
PROBLEM #4
I'm very depressed because I have no female presence in my life. If I wanted to get laid tonight, it would have to be through an escort.
However, I will never attract girls being depressed. They want guys who are entertaining and fun to be around.
How can I be happy and laugh and smile when I'm really hurting inside? Sure, I can do something that I like and feel better for a little while. But it's only temporary. When it's time to go to bed and once again I'm alone again, my depression sets in.
People say having a girl won't make you happy, but in my case I think it will. If I had a girlfriend (or just a **** buddy) and was having sex regularly (regularly for me is anything greater than two times per year), I would feel more confident and the stuff I'm interested in will become interesting again since I'm not depressed about being alone.
PROBLEM 5:
I'm reading the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss and some of the stories he wrote in that book really blows my mind. I didn't know girls will **** a man so fast and do such perverse sh*t since all you hear from women is commitment, love, etc.
Since joining this community, I don't view women the same. I feel as though all women will cheat and **** a guy in a club bathroom if given the chance. This depresses me. I don't care too much about a girl's past, but if she's my girlfriend and I know all it takes is for some PUA to seduce her, it depresses me. I want to have fun and have lots of sex, but if I want a LTR, I expect no cheating. And I don't think that will be the case with 95% of the women and I don't know how I would react if I find out she swallowed another guy's c*m.
Will most girls cheat if given the chance?
PROBLEM 6:
I can get a girl to agree to a first date (I'm strictly speaking about girls I meet online. Again, I don't approach in real life. See problem #1.
I always thought when you meet a girl online, the first date isn't really a date but like a way for her to see you're not a killer. So, I never set a date that's far from where she lives or request to pick her up. I also don't kino or end the date with a kiss because that's the first time we're meeting.
But now after reading the book "The Game" and other stuff online, it seems like girls are incredibly fast today. They want you to kiss or they won't answer their phone/text ever again. It's the total opposite than what girls say online.
I never score any second dates because I have the game totally messed up. Even if we met online, she expects me touch her and end the date with a kiss or else the date never even happened.
Is this correct? If so, no wonder the girl I met on Saturday ignored my call and text two days ago.
I know there has to be people in this community who felt the same way and experience the same things and have overcome these (and other) problems. I need your HELP.
Please don't just view this thread without responding if you can motivate me.
Feel free to PM me if you have words of wisdom about one or all of my problems.
