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    Need a guy's opinion

    if i put myself into this situation, this is how i would see it. you are a chick that he met off the internet that lives an hour away. you talk and talk over email and phone for a couple of months, hanging out a couple times a week with no sex. now i'm no genius but i'm not gonna drive an hour...
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    "....She doesn't know what she wants..." = PURE BULLSH!T

    its the exact same meaning of the conversation "it's not you, it's me" WRONG! it is you! her saying she doesnt know what she wants may be true. however one thing that she does know is that she doesnt want you. the same thing can be said to guys that are really hot that get a lot of ass based...
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    To do it or not to do it, that is the question?

    this is the perfect situation to use indirect game. dont show any interest or hit on them until they show signs of attraction towards you.
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    What's a good response?

    i second that, she's not interested, move on to the next, there's no response you can make to her that will keep it "open" to you. even if you come up with the greatest response text message in the world, she wont respond anyway. there's no point in sending her anything. forget about her, she's...
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    Any advice on this one guys?

    it could mean a number of different things. its your job to figure it out. i'll give you a few scenarios: she might just want to be friends with you cause your a cool guy. maybe she wants to hang out with you for validation. if she knows that you like her, it makes her feel good to know that...
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    What to do in this situation?

    as long as your having sex with her on a regualr basis, whats the problem? i wouldnt bring it up until you can start to feel some tension on the subject. since this has never been brought up, i'd continue having fun with her and not worry about it. if you bring up this conversation before she's...
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    How to tell a girl this..if im even supposed to at all

    some good advice so far guys. rule #1 never take advice from a woman when it comes to seduction. especially when it comes to a girl that you are trying to get with. it is very difficult to have a logical conversation about attracting a woman with females. they just dont get it. remember women...
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    Hot girl at a club, Totally blew it!

    it was the flowers that sent her over the edge, but i'm guessing there was never enough attraction built up from the start. understand that when most girls play hard to get you are still hanging out with them and they are teasing your c.o.c.k. i had a story like that back in my afc days. i...
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    How did it do?

    i see a few problems with your situation. first of all dont get offended by a lot of the things everone else on this post have been saying. for the most part they all have very valid points. #1 you should have asked her out right away. she may have been attracted to you at some point, she...
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    Some guys are living in denial about women

    i also want to mention that "game" will override "looks" aboout 90% of the time. you dont always have to be tall, dark, and handsome to get the girl. that also doesnt mean you can be a complete slob either. i used to to think that because i was short 5'7 that i couldnt get and girl that was...
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    how many times to you call or text girl before moving on if she don't respond

    i observed something very interesting over the weekend. its kind of a no brainer, but i'll share it with you anyways. i saw a really hot girl at the bar i was in, she was with a girl friend and a guy friend. i was sitting next to her while watching baseball on tv, just listening in on the...
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    Why did I fail to get laid?

    taking girls home from a night club is all about logistics. you need to find out the answers to 3 simple questions. 1. who is she here with? and who drove? are they all in one car? or did she drive seperate? if she's driving you have little to no chance, plus she is gonna be like the mother hen...
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    Any Stratagies For Beach Game?

    great advice guys for being on the actual beach, let me add this to the convo, this place is a bar, and i mainly stay in the bar area. would treat this more like day game or night game? would you go more direct or indirect?
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    Ok. this ain't a whine thread, but damn i'm confused

    its your attraction game that you are lacking. your looks really dont have all that much to do with it. just keep working on your attraction game and keep practicing on all the hot girls. the reason the fatties like you is cause your attitude towards them is that you are out of their league. you...
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    Date went fine until this happened! How should I respond?

    i had a couple of similar situations from girls i met off pof. my question to you is was the kiss a good one? open mouth tongue? or just a peck or was she a really bad kisser? i went on 3 dates with girls i met off pof, had great dates with all them. there was good conversation, lots of kino...
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    My problem!!!

    what you are going to realize is later on that if in fact you do meet "a good girl" you'll see your approach of being "nice" wont work with them either. you'll see that you must game all women in some fashion. the problem is a lot of girls say they want a "nice guy" but when they find one, they...
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    how many times to you call or text girl before moving on if she don't respond

    for me a lot depends on how many girls i currently have in my rotation. thats the whole reason for the theory of spinning plates. if one is not responding one of the other 5 chicks your talking to will. that way your not worried about it and you always have a backup plan. but generally i do like...
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    help needed

    fact is you have already been dumped. i have been through this 100 times before i learned anything about pickup. it means one of 2 things, maybe even both, she has lost attraction for you, or she is attracted to someone else. its really tricky to get the attraction back, and who knows how long...
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    HMM good looking guy seem to be ignored by all women

    the bottom line is you have to approach them. i've been going out to bars and clubs since i was 18 i'm 34 now, and i can count on one hand how many girls have ever approached me. they dont want their friends thinking they are a slut for approaching and hitting on a guy. it's ok when its the...
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    How do you build sexual attraction?

    thats all you got it is "work out?" sorry dude but that has nothing to do with game. i'm looking for real tips and techniques not just "hey get better looking" i thought you guys were better than that.
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