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    Girl liked me and than later on told me she wasn't ready for a relationship

    There's also the possibility that she's sh!t testing you. Most of the girls I fvck and/or date say that they don't want a relationship, they're "emotionally unavailable", or some similar nonsense. The proper response is to say "that's perfect, me either" and keep fvcking her, and having with...
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    Why does this one bother me so much? She shouldn't.

    Yep, I probably sound (more than) a little crazy myself. I equate "average" and "stable" with "waste" and "boring." I like to be challenged, stimulated, and figure things out. I want to play the game at a high level. That desire can be good for some areas of life (like business, if your risks...
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    Why does this one bother me so much? She shouldn't.

    I'm still in an experimental stage. It's not always enough for me to try to just identify women and be done with them, I like to play back. I genuinely enjoy the game, now that I understand it better. In this girl's case, now that I've identified her as a specific type, I want to see if I'm...
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    How to put her past out of your mind?

    30 year olds aren't worth sh!t to a 30 year old guy. I have never dated a woman my age, or older than me. And never will. That said - I've been where you are - emotionally compromised by a dangerous woman - but I came out of it after much pain, and she was a big part of me establishing my...
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    Why does this one bother me so much? She shouldn't.

    Yeah, I checked out her Facebook, she's getting closer and closer to full melt down. Desperately trying to get me to react. She's posted pictures of herself with 3 different guys in the last several days. Innocent "friendly" hugs, of course - but she's definitely ramping it up. Trying to get me...
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    It had to happen - chicks are now attracted to the surviving Boston terrorist

    Here's a question: Is social media actually making women dumber and more narcissistic, or just exposing what was already there?
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    Why does this one bother me so much? She shouldn't.

    Bullet? More like nuclear warhead.
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    Taking a break from dating/women Need advice/insight

    I'm about to enter into one of those phases right now. I've never been in worse shape, though I'm still lean, I've lost about 15lbs of muscle mass, and my cardiovascular fitness is total sh!t. It decreases the quality of sex, and my overall well being in general. Got a ton of challenges to...
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    Why does this one bother me so much? She shouldn't.

    Thanks again guys. So after several days of strict NC, she makes a nice comment on one of my Facebook updates (I booked a trip on a huge EDM party cruise that she really wants to go on but can't, due to work). I ignored it. Few hours later, I get the "I don't want to bother you but I didn't...
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    Why does this one bother me so much? She shouldn't.

    These responses are hitting me right between the eyes. Definitely gaining something out of this discussion. I think I inadvertently showed her a weakness, and she exploited it very well. That's how she built somewhat of an emotional connection with me early on. We both have high income, high...
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    Why does this one bother me so much? She shouldn't.

    I kept a very strong frame, even through the end. And when it was time to let go - I dumped her pretty callously, showed no emotion, and have been NC since. I'm not saying I want her back. I'm not saying I regret letting her go. I'm saying I'm at a loss for how I ever allowed myself to...
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    Why does this one bother me so much? She shouldn't.

    So I recently (and rather coldly) broke things off with a girl I'd been seeing for a couple months. I absolutely loved hanging out with this girl. The sex was great, and she gave me all I wanted. And she's very fun, very active, has a lot of friends, etc. Very easy to talk to. So I enjoyed...
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    Need Advice - any help appreciated

    Text is beyond bad. It's best to keep the initial interaction short and interesting, and if possible, find something to tease her about or a nickname for her. That gives you a solid lead-in for your text or phone call. Doesn't sound like that's the case here. And she may just be a bored...
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    Feeling disrespected, what's the best way to end it?

    I'm good friends one of her exes, we had dinner/drinks/poker last as we usually do on Mondays. They were together 16 months, before he dumped her. All her friends were getting engaged or married while they were together, so her hamster wheel was going nuts when he let her go. She "failed", her...
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    Ways to Increase Actual and Perceived Value

    There is an idea in a couple of posts in this thread that women get turned off by being treated like anything other than a common wh0re. This is absolutely true - of common wh0res. Women with no self esteem, who view themselves as low value (and this can include many hot women) will spread...
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    Feeling disrespected, what's the best way to end it?

    A lot of guys would call this behavior beta, but I love it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZPR9bI1qDxA This is when Don confronts his wife about her affair (even though he has slept with numerous women during their marriage). Check out the look on her face. Even better than the look I got...
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    Feeling disrespected, what's the best way to end it?

    A woman can say that all she wants, that doesn't mean I have to accept wh0rish behavior. She has the right to walk, but I have the right to reject bullsh!t like the above. Also, see my earlier post: Regardless, I'd been fvcking her and hanging out with her for 3 months. Does that give me...
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    Feeling disrespected, what's the best way to end it?

    So far she's called twice and sent 8 texts over the next hour. She still pretends to have no idea why I'm turned off.
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    Feeling disrespected, what's the best way to end it?

    cordon, Nice to see you again. Yes, I'm not quite as interested in her on a purely physical level. Also, I think she's a little more unstable than I'd like. I actually got back together with the other girl - she pursued me very, very hard and I gave it a shot, but with both eyes wide open. I...
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    Feeling disrespected, what's the best way to end it?

    TheException, I appreciate your post. I do believe that men, not women, should control the frame. If I do not want my woman making sexually charged comments to another man in my presence (and god knows what she would do outside my presence), then that is not going to go on. If Girl X doesn't...
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