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Unfortunately she’s not willing to do anything fun like that.

Great honest answer. Thank you. I agree with your assessment. I agree that the outcomes you have witnessed are probably the most common outcomes from cheating. However, this also begs the question if these outcomes are avoidable. For example, should I lose respect for my wife if she forgives...

Also... remember that a woman may feel slutty after this... she may just be putting things off a bit to play hard to get and not feel too easy. Either way... let her know you’re interested and you’d like to see her but only after she reaches out... also remember this only works out if she comes...

Ha ha you get it. Although I am likely to feel guilty... not at all because I think it’s wrong... I really don’t.... and I’d actually consider letting her sleep around if she wanted to on occasion. The reason for feeling guilty is that she has no desire to sleep around and she is never going to...

Ha ha this is funny... OK... look... let’s assume for good reason that I can’t explain all the intricacies that have occurred via this forum of my 10 year marriage. I’ll say this... My wife and I have been through marriage counseling...Yes we had all the uncomfortable conversations....and for...

I’m not sure I would feel right about cheating While I’m living under the same roof... but if I should choose to.....how does a married man go about picking up women...?

IMO one of the most important rules with women is to always remember that actions speak louder than words. Words have ZERO meaning to women.

No. A lot of assumptions here. The relationship is good. She’s not cheating. She gets plenty of attention. We just had hot sweaty sex that by any standard would be considered “good” sex. I think it’s just me. I think it’s the routine of having sex with the same person for 10 + years.

Lol it’s not that bad... ha ha but yes sex has turned into .... “ok you jump on top and pound away and after I *** I’ll jump on top and go to town and we’ll be done”.

Not so much. She’d only been with one other guy before me so she’s less experienced in general but.... also just not interested in having fun or being spontaneous. Feels no need to be sexy whatsoever.

Your description of her is spot on.

part of the problem... which is good and bad... is that she’s super easy to please in bed. So she tends to be a bit selfish and sex becomes routine.... as it does in most marriages I suppose.

I understand where you’re coming from... but you’re off the mark on her.I think there are multiple problems....she seems very content and happy and still totally in love. I love her very much I just miss the excitement you get with someone new.... and I’m not sure how to get that without cheating.

I can relate to this quite a bit. My wife and I separated for 3 months about 4 years ago... and I openly was fooling around with another woman. Just kissing the new woman was so exciting.... that younger woman ended up being a complete ass and having a whole bunch of other issues. Which sucked...

I don’t think I’d talk with peers if I was cheating. They talk with me about their endeavors.

Honestly... No. I don’t think so....my wife tends to be more of a prude. No. My wife is attractive. Smart... and successful. TBH I don’t think I was head over heals in love with her when I married her but I knew she’d be a great catch... and she is. I have no regrets... just bored as hell...

I’m posting for opinions and perhaps experience from other married men. I’m not looking for judgement. I’ve been married for double digit years now and I also work with my wife. She’s great... but I’m just not super attracted to her sexually any more. She refuses to spice things up in the...

So I’m starting day 1 today. I’ve done NC with this same woman multiple times and she always ends up writing to me IMY messages or I’m sorry or whatever it is. It’s been four years now that we’ve been going back and forth like this. We’ve both moved on in other relationships. But... It seems...