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I definitely understand where you’re coming from... Our situation was this... we worked together and got close... she was really close with me and my daughter. I was unhappily married so I decided to move out and she said she was in a relationship that wasn’t great. So I moved out and she...

Ah F I totally want to contact this woman today. I won’t but... uugghhhhh she plays these mind games that f me up. I can’t get her away from this guy that she is so much better than but she sees him as her first love.... not sure what’s with women and hanging on to that “first” relationship...

So I feel ya on this one... personally I like a challenge and so I think it can be fun to go after a woman who is not interested or playing really hard to get.... and the tables are turned against you from the beginning....and....Turning the tables can be difficult. Ultimately it depends on the...

It depends on how much you value your current relationship. Fooling around is fun... and even though I’m married I am considering it... but you have to recognize that it’s going to be negative for your current relationship. Regardless if she were to find out or not. If you’re just dating I’d say...

Exactly. The absolute worst thing to do is to draw the line and then be spineless and not follow through with the consequence.

IMHO it is the ego hits that can be the hardest. I still think about this woman that totally dumped on my ego. I was older than her 30 vs 20. I had everything going for me in my life, good looking, physician, owned my own business, pretty much just doing well all around. I don’t know what it was...

I just had a woman write to me that I haven’t seen for years. She showed some interest years ago when I was separated from my wife...who I am now back with. She wanted to hook up but then I found out she was spinning 3 other guys all while she was living with her GF. This just sounded like...

Right... i think when a woman pulls away let her go. What I was saying is... there are also instances when woman do other actions (like flirt with your friends), flake on you, or whatever it may be...just to see if you’ll call them out for it... sometimes in these instances I think it’s alpha...

I agree with OP 100%. Having a said that I do believe there is a time and point when it’s alpha to call a woman out... I believe there’s a point where women need to be called on their BS... in fact I know some women walk the line and push their man to see if he’ll allow her to walk all over him...

I think you’re confused on what the problem is. It’s not sexual experimentation that’s lacking. It’s “I never need to look good or try at all ever to do anything or even act slightly sexy bc I’m not that kind of person attitude “. This is what pisses me off. I’ll work my ass for her. At...

When a sheep dog gets a taste for sheep... the farmer can’t train that taste out of him... he will end up killing sheep every chance he gets until the farmer has no choice but to put the dog down. That’s what will happen to the relationship. One person will enjoy it, the other won’t. The one...

When I move out... which I’ve done 2x now... it seems to “pop” her out of this state... but it’s like as soon as she feels secure she resorts back to this stubborn ass that can’t be reasoned with. TBH I never understood how marriage could change a relationship... but once we got married she did...

If you don’t mind me asking... it seems you had the book by your bedside yet it sounds like your marriage still unraveled...? Did the book help or were there just too many issues to overcome?

I’m sure she does... I don’t necessarily know her friends sex lives... but I do know she is the prude of the bunch.... and she’s so stubborn and strong willed that she’d rather get divorced than give in.... The other problem I’m worried about is that even if she decides to give in and change...

Ha ha unfortunately I think statements above are correct. I think it’s kind of pointless to stay married while banging others... If things don’t change soon I’ll move for a final time.

Open relationship not happening. There is a clear give and take in relationships... or there should be... I do something for you... you do something nice for me. And we continue down the road as a happy couple. However, in my marriage for example... the other night she came in and asked if I’d...

Oh they can be banged for sure. But if you think an Italian woman is crazy wait until you meet her husband!

As far as I’ve read I think TAKEN women should be on the list. not only might you get yourself murdered by a crazy husband or BF but it’s almost always some sort of drama you don’t want.

Ha ha I’m clearly thinking about it.

Yeah. We’ve had the talk... lol... after I did move out and date someone else... but she’s this way with everything... “hey honey I know we are both physicians and super high achieving... but we’ve had a tough week. I know you’ve never smoked pot... why don’t we buy some and get high together”...