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One last thought. Realize that her kid will always come first (this is natural) - so if you want to see her, fvck her - whatever - that may not happen - because she has to deal with her kid.

This may sound harsh. How did she come about having the kid? Was she married? or was it out of wedlock? Was it a casual partner? I've generally stayed away, because if they've had one once - they can have one again..... I only want kids with one woman - my wife.

Tell her as soon as you can. Over the phone is best. Don't due it online or over email. Don't so it face to face because you will probably just cry :D Kidding. Over the phone. Less BS to deal with. Call her up :- pre-emptive strike.

******** Then we had sex a few times and went to dinner ******** I rest my case. We'll be here the next time it happens.

Only you know the answer. My thoughts. Have fun and bang Mrs right now. Reality - Mrs Right? Your 17 - believe me the probability is she's not. Plus the last thing you need right now is an LTR. Go out there, meet women - have fun, enjoy. They both don't need to know about each other...

Agreed. it's not being AFC to let someone know what is and is not acceptable. One thing that you absolutely MUST do, is to be true to yourself - and if something someone is doing that is not acceptable - let them know and give them the opportunity to decide for themselves. If you are...

I've taken the time at work to read this entire post. Here's my first observation. JJ, You are way to into this chick or this situation. I don't care if your telling us your maintaing a front for her - but I don't by it. There's nothing wrong with this, but she's getting away with...

Haven't we all lied like this? I know I have lied about some of my past, because I felt the woman I was with would not be able to handle it. I was caught to - and had to deal with the ramifications - and now, it's not something I would ever do again - but sometimes you need to get caught in...

It will be easier on you if you just break off ties. Seeing her - and not "Being" with her, will fvck you up in the head - and you will not be happy. Plus, you are giving more than she is. She's taking what she wants from you - friendship, a guy who wants her and therefore will treat her...

Sometimes, it's just better not to know.

*********** newman, I love those types of girls. It's crazy how rare they are though, don't you find? I find myself rarely blown away by most women. Simply bcause I havent met many who have exuded such confidence, reverence and overall positive energy for life. I met one 2 summers ago...

I used to be like that - happy to just sit at home alone... Then I meet a girl who had so much energy and charisma. She was the total opposite of me - she lived for today - had experienced so many other things in life - she had this love for life and living. It was strange - but I...

You putting to much emphasis on this first date. If she likes you she will do anything - why TRY and make it intising for her? Your just acting like an AFC. You do what YOU want to do. You want to go get a beer - then do it. Coffee (which is a big no-no for me - I never take girls...

Just fvcking dump her a## and stopping being a ***** about it. You really think they are going to lodge complaints against you? Come on. It's not going to happen period.

Wow - and you expect us to make sense of that? Firstly - this girl is your buddies ex right? It's in my opinion that before you make a move on her you talk to him about it - and how he feels - unless you don't give a sh#t about him. Nextly - What are you looking for? Do you want the...

Continue to persue other chicks - make sure she knows that thats what you are doing. In fact, bring other girls back to your pad - so your rommie knows that you have other women. Then you make a move on her. You basically want her to know and get familiar with the idea that you are...

Negative. Go for both. Don't just stick with one woman god damit - have multiple on the go - then you can make the choice of who the best is for you.

I'd create a new email address and reply to it. See what she says and what she does. Then I'd let her know it was me - and tell her that I really didn't give a damn if she saw other guys - because your seeing other women :)

Get a bunch of moving box's - start putting **** in there - ger label's, pen's that kind of stuff. When she comes over, tell her your place is a mess because your going through your stuff, packing it up for your move.

What sup with dat? Do you go down town for her? If so, go down on her and drive her wild on a regular basis. Get her so that she's loving it - looking forward to it. Make it part and parcel of your sex. Then take it away. No more. Tit for tat. Imature for sure - but if your...