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It is an indicator of low interest. I don't believe women are ditzy creatures subject to the gravitational pull of others. Let me explain. I believe that they do what they do for a reason, and it's not because they have no control over themselves and therefore are "pulled away" by shiny bright...

I think she's trying to keep you around and is moving you into somewhere you'd be more open to being with her, a "safe haven". IOW, "You don't want to date me, but I still would like to see you, so maybe as part of a group date?" After all, you invited her to hang out with you, right?

Let's see... one of my exes attends the NYC Black & Blue Ball... an event where a chick wears fishnets and skin tight leather and miniskirts and f*ck me pumps/thigh high boots and extreme makeup and jewelry and hair and is very much out to be seen and noticed... YEP. No surprise. There's serious...

Ah! Don't let her catch you staring, panting and drooling at the TV next time. Just kidding. That sounds like an insecurity, i.e., "Am I as pretty as her?" I wouldn't make a flip joke about it in handling it, not to an insecure woman. They seem to lose their sense of humor about these things...

Not everybody here has excised their inner chump, perhaps? That's exactly right. Abandon the sinking ship or drown along with it.

I'd say it's EXACTLY that she wants a man. What's being asked of the man does not require any "super" ability but for him to display more of the "masculine" traits in him rather then the "feminine" traits he carries. It's those masculine traits that she's seeking to be predominant in her man...

What was the conversation about that she'd mention that? Don't read anything into that. She has low self-esteem? No! I think you'd want your woman to think she's got herself a catch, no? "Healthy", by definition, would require her to be healthy, assuming you're healthy too. But you could...

That's the way it is. That's how they may explain it, but don't be fooled by their causal reasoning. There are probably other dynamics at work. "Best friends" don't usually have romantic moments together, for example, nor do many people usually lust after or desire sexual relationships with...

>> You cannot generalize the behavior of ALL women. That is like generalizing the behavior off all men. There are no two human beings alike.>> Though no two people are alike, human behavior and human psychology is what they share in common, so one can generalize but then zero in more accurately...

Men are permitted to feel emotions, but we're more expected to also handle them and not use them as an excuse to kill ourselves or others. And killing yourself over losing a woman is about extreme lack of self-control, as it also is when a jilted man kills his ex. It's not about being able to...

All these examples show that when the man continually abandons the masculine quality he's to bring to a relationship or continually acts out the "feminine" qualities, it creates an imbalance that the woman then steps in to fill by magnifying her masculine traits. For a moment, it may be fine, as...

When they finally decide they want out, they "emotionally divorce" from the relationship but their physical exit typically comes later, it usually involves some planning ("when the kids finish high school", "when I get the new job", "when I have a new branch"). In the interim, all they're...

She says she has an ex that she's not willing to let go of? Man, isn't it amazing how brazen women are? That's because most guys will accept any behavior from a woman, just so they can have a chance of getting some... Imagine a guy saying that to a woman and then inviting her out? THAT would go...

You've got to figure out your part in losing her interest. Sounds to me like you were too available ("she came to my house everyday. She always wanted to be with me") and the fact that you had few arguments and conflicts makes me wonder who started them, what they were about and how they were...

I have a different take on all this. What Gene Simmons is doing is no different than previous celebrities who used arrogance to provoke and exploit media opportunities for publicity and attention. Gore Vidal did the same thing 40 years ago. Mae West did it 80 years ago. So do shock jocks today...

No, it's an anology, it's not equating the two. Gawd, that's funny!

Wait a sec, you're saying that you post all this "planning to fail" stuff because I'm posting what you (incorrectly) assume is reactionary stuff? Doesn't that make your posts reactionary if you're posting them in reaction to my posts? Anyway, like I said, what I'm posting is not...

"Does this mean if i'm really angry and..." The basis for your argument is in comparing your emotional control to that of the female? "you make a joke and she laughs through the tears? That was fake because she could laugh at something funny?" Yep. She wasn't that broken up about it if she...

"I don't think Mr. Me saw that she just texted me saying she'll be there tonight." I did read that. It's that I don't always believe what women say in these situations, that's all. And Francisco, this spin of yours this "planning to fail" stuff. It's getting tiring. It's not "planning to...

Actually, MNIN, what I was thinking was that the date sounds like she's going to flake. She's making all the standard noises. And now I read that her offer of meeting you for drinks only came during when she replied to YOUR message, IOW, she didn't take the initiative to contact you first and...