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It's linear thinking. The rationale is "if I'm not there, I have no input". You know the saying: "Out of sight, out of mind", right? But there's also the saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder". Both truisms. Yet they seem to conflict with each other? How can they both be true, then...

So her body doesn't really say yes. Not when it comes to her lips. "Interpret" is they key word in your post. More rationalization, my friend. She knows what she wants. They all know what they want. They just don't tell you that. Rule of thumb: girl gives mixed signals - you pull back.

Gee, why stop there? How about getting them attracted to you the day before you ever meet them, this way when you first approach them, they've already slept with you. Twice. Rome wasn't built in a day. You have to build on something. You can't attract every one.

And if you're putting rabbits INTO your ass - you're in a gay club.

Always exceptions to a rule. Or maybe you're absolutely convinced they're not AWs when that's actually their AW side showing. Talking a known AW into signing up is like pushing a piece of pie unto a fatty. "Well... okay... if you insist... I'll just try this one little slice..." LOL Look at...

Good thing. Imagine how you would've come across if you did think to ask. Gee, that's a great way of getting rid of someone! I think I'll try it too. Wow, you sure guess a lot! Sure! Why not? That's what she does! Mia congettura è che non state andando mai sentirsi ancora da lei...

Why do you have to bust them? Yeah, I understand C&F, but that doesn't mean it's always the thing to do... lingering eye contact is a sign of interest. Why don't you try to escalate instead? The only problem is that you may be asking for problems since they'll still be your co-workers after...

She's being a high school age girl who flits around. You've gotten yourself too emotionally attached. Detach. Move on. See how they learn at a so very young age how to not tell you what they're really thinking and instead feed your ego? NEVER ask a woman what's she's thinking. You're hardly...

trverb, I don't know if you realize it but that last post of yours is filled with you making excuses for her. You give more excuses for her than she's given excuses for herself! Don't do that. You're doing the typical male rationalizing away the woman's disinterest. Let's only look at her...

Let's back up a bit. So, when you exchanged numbers, how did that go down? Did you ask for her number but then she said "Give me yours"? Or she said "Here's my card?" It happened to me last night. Eye contact, she flashed a HUGE smile. Great! I walk up to her and we start chatting, within a...

Your premise is incorrect. Guys believe that they must be present with a woman to get her thinking about you, when the truth is, she thinks about you when you're not there... IF she had a great time with you. That's the answer. If you're FUN to be with, make her laugh, confident, lead AND end...

All of the above. Plus keep this mind: If a woman's IL isn't rising - then it's falling.

After all her IOIs, I think that's the big flag, that she didn't at least kiss you. That is what you mean by "moving in for the kill", right? I think you handled everything fairly well. But she's liking the attention, is my guess. And she says that to you when her friends weren't even there...

I think any gal who has a myspace of facebook page is by definition an AW. The girl posts your "requests" for all her friends to see = "Look how popular I am! I have men wanting me!" Additionally, that's private material between you and her. Shows a lack of class on her part to post it...

In my experience, she's not fishing for a compliment. What she's doing is trying to draw your attention to her figure. I'll bet she looked good in those jeans. She'd doing that because she can't tell if you're attracted to her or not and she's attracted to you, and she's trying to get you...

I love watching those VIP episodes, not just to see real life PUA, but because of the laughs with the hosts. It's really funny. But to get to my point: Even with the best PUAs, like cajun, I see some things that I personally believe not to do. For example, a lot of these guys introduce...

Traveler, until you've regained a good measure of trust, I wouldn't trust your wife's account about anything. For all we know, all this that she told you may be complete and total bullsh!t to put you at ease. Perhaps the reason she walked away from Josh when she was calling you, was because she...

Sounds like you feel other people are doing exciting, interesting things you'd like to do yet you feel you're spinning your wheels and getting nowhere fast as life is slipping by and things will never change for you. Is that pretty much it? Here's what you're not considering: These other...

I found this about them: Keep in mind that as far as appearances go, Strauss did get rid of his glasses, shaved off whatever remaining hair he had and changed his wardrobe from nerdy to trendy. IOW, improved his looks best possible.

You should do a search on "flaking" or 'flake" because this is written about ALL the time. Search my posts, I've just written on someone's thread tonight detailing handling flakes: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141004 Just to touch upon your sitch briefly: Women flake because...