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*I* would rather receive a text than a phone call. I can't multitask and talk on the phone too well. Why waste my time on the phone? Like others have said, if she likes you, the method of communication won't matter. If you're a little b!tch, the method of communication won't matter either.

*enters troll mode* http://cheezburger.com/6684367872

You can't measure success unless you have an objective

1) Make the date at a bar/lounge instead. 2) If not, choose a cafe that has a good place for walking nearby. 3) Either take the coffee to go, or after a bit of conversation, suggest you go walking to said place. 4) Walk, flirt, kino, etc. 5) Take it from there

21 years old (unnecessarily wordy response to meet forum length requirements)

We haven't seen each other in awhile as she's moved across the globe, but we talk often, and she's well acquainted with my friend down there :o Says she never really noticed if I was or not, wtf

Sounds that way to me too; just make sure she knows there will be no extreme makeovers tolerated!

Can you negotiate it down to maybe one month? Really, IMO it just comes down to whether or not you think you'll have problems with her. If you haven't had any already and you actually consider her your friend, then...is it likely you'll have an issue with her? Have you ever noticed any...

Unless I missed something, this seems to be the only explanation of why you don't want to sign the contract and make life easier for a friend of yours, so you should probably elaborate.

If you read my post(s) carefully, I'm pretty sure we're saying the same thing ;)

You mean wait a day or two after the next time you two exchange texts? In the past I've waited, but I'm becoming more and more convinced that it's better not to wait. So if she texts you Monday go ahead and try to set something up, otherwise whenever you next decide to contact her, just do...

Is there really a better option than just...not doing anything? As in, pretend it never happened. So tomorrow is Monday (or for you, perhaps it already is). She'll either hit you up or she doesn't. If she does, I don't think you'll be needing any further advice. If she doesn't? Then just...

Yeah man, I've been out of 'soda' for almost a year now, I'll miss that life though. BTW I meant to include: Turns out she cannot drink much alcohol (health reasons), so she doesn't like going to bars.

Recently moved to a new city, started a dance class. There's this HB7 in there who immediately showed high IL, so after the second class I grabbed her number, saying 'maybe we can grab a drink this weekend,' to which she promptly replied: "Yeah well there's this coffee shop I like to go to..." I...

Anybody out there?

Thanks for the suggestions guys! I agree that keeping it simple is awesome, although no doubt a well-cooked meal is usually worth the effort...just don't care enough. Out of all the cheeses out there...you go and choose the worst one :D

Immature. You're causing the drama now. Could have said "I'm not sure" and left it at that.

You should try to get her to go out with you and your friends sometime...even though she may be off the table, she could have some attractive friends

To whom to you send these friend requests? Girls that you find without any mutual friends? Do you have a separate Facebook account just for this?

Good point about the couples. Luckily for me, this is a class at a university, where I am a graduate student (mostly undergrad girls but I'm young enough so no big deal). Tango class