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Why are you taking her for hot chocolate instead of for adult beverages anyway?

I disagree with the others, I think you should just contact her by LinkedIn and get her number there. Something like "hey my dog ate your number, send it to me again!" Best/worst case scenarios if you contact her: You two live happily ever after/you don't get her number. Best/worst case...

BB, that was pretty fvcking inspirational :up: However, it could be made inspirational AND easier to read if you used words like fvck and sh!t instead of **** and **** !!!

You make your intention known by asking her out, of course!

I just PM'ed you

You've solved your own problem. @marmel75, I think it's a bit much to ask a guy with these kinds of questions to just grab her and make out with her on the spot, and end up having sex with her that night. The OP is obviously inexperienced, and having that kind of expectation will just make...

Either you meant to say "she stops me from going further," or we might have found your problem there. You should be making her want more. EDIT: bradd80 beat me to it

How about friend with benefits? :D

Yeah I did that for a few days, I was very careful to make sure they were girls with whom I had zero mutual friends, but I was still worried about them reporting me to Facebook. I stopped. Also, nowadays on Facebook, if someone you're not friends with sends you a message, it doesn't even...

Dude...you're scaring me :nervous:

Thanks, but I think it's more likely that I did mess it up for myself, as Harry Wilmington pointed out. She is the one who contacted me the night we did meet up, and that makes me think that either 1) I fvcked up once I got her out to the bar, or 2) She was never interested, was being...

Very true JohnChops, which is why aside from asking her about the class I missed, I've only texted her about meeting up! But I won't be going out of my way to contact her at all for some time now. Time to focus on other girls/things

This hit home for me. Good insight, +1 Meh. Texting doesn't kill relationships, being stupid kills relationships. But your post was pretty helpful, thanks. Today, she could have sat next to me in class, but instead sits in front of me, then turns around and speaks to me. Anyway, I'll dial...

Yeah you're right, next time I gotta push it further. Things just happened really quickly towards the end. She's Italian!

Met a girl in class. She seemed attracted, didn't get many chances to speak to her. Finally sat by her one day, we exchanged numbers, met up to do some homework that was due (we're graduate students, so no fvcking around when it comes to that). Good conversation (English is her 3rd language so...

This times infinity. Go for coffee instead of brunch btw, and make sure you have a plan of action to move from the coffee shop (maybe even get it to go and take her to a nearby park or something...you know?).

Guy makes out with girl. Girl has to leave early. Guy contacts girl to take her out. Yeah, it's a real mystery whether he likes her or not, I'm sure she can't tell :rolleyes: But yeah, I do agree don't kiss her right away. It's just forcing things, and will just make her nervous. Like...

I agree with everything else you said, but I don't really like this. Sure, if she does call you to confirm, her IL is probably sky high. However, even if it's not THAT high and she doesn't bother calling, if YOU confirm with HER, you can RAISE her IL on the date, assuming she's not flaking...

Are you both under 21? Then just invite her over again. To watch a movie, meet your dog, whatever. I think it's easier the younger you are. Don't do coffee again. Try playing pool somewhere, that's always been a go-to date for me. Easy to get some physical contact in.

1) Drinks at a place that is logistically favorable to getting her to your place 2) Escalate 3) You either get her to your place, or you get her warmed up so that next time you can invite her to your place