Hello,
I met a girl a a month ago, she is Chinese and at first we just met because we were both looking for language partners (I'm learning chinese and she is learning my german).
Every time we met, it became less and less about learning each other's language and more and more about spending time together, I think I am attracted to her but I don't know what to think.
Her body language tells me she likes me, she stares at my eyes for the longest time, when we walk on the street she is always walking unusually close to me... she is always asking me questions about my personal relationships, she even asked me if I liked asian girls.
When I asked her why she stared at my eyes so long she said it's because she finds my eyes beautiful. Given all this, I would think she likes me but, when I asked her if since she arrived her she met somebody she would like to date, she told me she doesn't think about it and she just thinks about studying german.
She said several times she would like me to invite her to my place to eat dinner so that is what we did... and it was confusing, I mean it was the same things, at one time I was really close to kiss her but I thought about what she said and I didn't.
I told her that those moments are a bit confusing for me, because usually when a girl behaves this way with me, it ends up being more than a platonic friendship but she just told me that when she looks at my eyes without saying a word for so long, it doesn't mean anything.
So here I am, I know she is shy (I basically always take the decisions when we want to do things together) but I don't know if there is something there or if she just sees my as a friend.
I think that instead of talking and constantly analyzing I should have acted but I am such a p*ssy that I didn't know what to do and I am a little angry at myself for still not really knowing what is going on.
What do you guys think?
I met a girl a a month ago, she is Chinese and at first we just met because we were both looking for language partners (I'm learning chinese and she is learning my german).
Every time we met, it became less and less about learning each other's language and more and more about spending time together, I think I am attracted to her but I don't know what to think.
Her body language tells me she likes me, she stares at my eyes for the longest time, when we walk on the street she is always walking unusually close to me... she is always asking me questions about my personal relationships, she even asked me if I liked asian girls.
When I asked her why she stared at my eyes so long she said it's because she finds my eyes beautiful. Given all this, I would think she likes me but, when I asked her if since she arrived her she met somebody she would like to date, she told me she doesn't think about it and she just thinks about studying german.
She said several times she would like me to invite her to my place to eat dinner so that is what we did... and it was confusing, I mean it was the same things, at one time I was really close to kiss her but I thought about what she said and I didn't.
I told her that those moments are a bit confusing for me, because usually when a girl behaves this way with me, it ends up being more than a platonic friendship but she just told me that when she looks at my eyes without saying a word for so long, it doesn't mean anything.
So here I am, I know she is shy (I basically always take the decisions when we want to do things together) but I don't know if there is something there or if she just sees my as a friend.
I think that instead of talking and constantly analyzing I should have acted but I am such a p*ssy that I didn't know what to do and I am a little angry at myself for still not really knowing what is going on.
What do you guys think?
