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I think this is the wrong way to look at things. 1) In the same light, there shouldn't be any real investment with ANY girl at this stage of the process. 2) It's practice, right? You practice like you play. So, always be going towards the end goal, no matter where you begin from.

You're right about building some comfort, but you have to find a balance between moving in too quick and taking too long. I think you've been texting her for some time now, I'd wait until a day or two after Christmas and then set something up - no use drawing this out too long.

Are you fvcking kidding me? Flight delays must have been paradise. I was offered a 'discount hotel voucher' and the option to fly stand-by.

The timing of this thread is funny - a few days ago I had my flight canceled and was stranded overnight. Chatted up a couple girls that were in the same situation as me. Never would have met them otherwise, but I had openings, and while I'm not sure anything will come of it, I did get their...

A few days?! Unless you're in a coma or an astronaut, nobody is THAT busy, so it's really obvious what you're doing. A few hours every now and then can be effective.

Sounds like you should have forced the issue a bit more (place fingers under chin, turn face towards you, move in). Also, that 'no kissing on the first date' line is kinda awkward IMO, you should stay away from that.

Actually I think those were anomalies, I've been using it pretty successfully now (not to start the convo, but the lead into the number close). Well, I found another girl from my stranded flight. No need to post details because I just opened with "so are you stuck here too?" She definitely...

Ha yeah, gotta love when you send the first 2 messages or so and get back replies instantly, then you set the date and then *crickets* Silence for like 45 minutes and then a weak excuse. Ummm yeah....real subtle

You're right JC...thought that's what I was doing :D omega05 yeah perhaps, I felt like that would be putting an ultimatum on our 'relationship' but I suppose it kind of ended up being one anyway. Ok so I am stuck in the fvcking airport in Cleveland - I might literally be stranded here 3...

Thanks for the input guys. It definitely felt good, I'll be doing more of it. Vlad, love the signature - one of my favorite stand-up acts for sure. Today I met one of the online girls for coffee. When she first walked up I was fairly disappointed in her looks, but after she got un-bundled...

Yeah I'd love to, don't have much time to go out (nor the money), but speaking of approaching, I did my second ever cold approach today (and first in 5 years). HB7 Asian girl sitting on a bench inside the entrance to a deserted subway station (it was 1 in the morning). I walk past, but then...

Thanks for the suggestions guys! I'm definitely still reading :D

I started trying online dating for the first time, made an OkCupid account. I swear, almost 40% of girls list themselves as bi. Have you guys noticed anything like that? Is this a new trend? I mean, I am in a very gay-friendly area so there could be some selection bias at play here, but still...

Yeah, they always seem to c_um way too easily...

In the time you took to write this post, you could have emailed her. You would then end up with a better answer of her interest level than anybody here can speculate on.

Haha I remember my last day of undergrad, I had 2 finals within 2 hours of each other - in my two hardest classes! That was the last true all-nighter I pulled, but I rocked that sh!t! They say you get your energy from the previous night's sleep...I believe it.

I usually take the opposite approach. I study hard the days leading up to it, but I get TONS of sleep. Then, the night before, I study all night. I've done all-nighters before, but I usually try to get a couple hours of sleep if possible. I drink caffeine during the night, and I drink a big...

You: Sup? Her: ... You: Let's go shoot some pool, meet me at XYZ bar around 8 Her: I want you inside of me Something like that... Anyway, if she is free then you can grab your drinks without making it seem so redundant, and if she's not, she'll either counteroffer, or you'll know she's...

Fixed it for you. Less talk, more action.

Well, she clearly sees you in a sexual light, so you're off to a good start :up: I would wait a couple days with this one - hit her up maybe Tuesday or so, see if she's down to grab a drink. As for the actual interaction, I think you handled it pretty well - definitely good that you...