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    Compensation

    Isn't that why people are reading this board? To make up for what they naturally do not have?
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    Not Interested in Sex

    lack of desire is understandable if the sex is readily available. If, when you in the throws - or when the chicky is doing her job, you are not into it, then, I would say you may want to get a check up.
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    My girl friend.... ?

    don't worry about whats coming out of her mouth - the way she acts will tell you where you stand. stop talking so much with her and "just do it"
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    I know what I want with regards to women.

    Good luck - we are all in the race - Personally, I doubt I'll ever find that - 37 and still looking...
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    Financially Unsuccessful Guy Facing Crisis in Confidence With Women

    Let's get to the crux of the OP's question. Money and women. I'm not saying I'm Rich - no - I'm comfortable. Sure I work for the 'man', but I make plenty of money to own my house and toys - plus put plenty into a 401K. I though, act the opposite around women. I act like I barely make...
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    Need help with this one fellow DJ's

    It's really irrelevant at this stage. The message has been sent and acknowledged. I would suggest though, that going forward you be careful and tread a fine line by being TO sympathetic. Don't over do it. Don't be the guy she's continually crying to - because when she get's out of her...
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    "Independant" woman at 35+ years old <- same as being a spinster

    out of interest, why is this important? I only ask, because it seems like many posters have to include things like this in order for them to come over as more "Alpha" like..... just by including it makes me wonder.
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    FB break up

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    FR: Dinner date gone wrong

    LOL - ok that was funny. But seriously, there was no yelling, and I know how to control myself. If I invite someone out, I pay. But the result is, stop taking her to dinner. Nope, I'm just not a pvssy about these things. As Redpil said: it's a complete lack of social skills...
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    FR: Dinner date gone wrong

    None of these things happened, and by the way, i wasn't an A hole. all i said was, let's get some box's to go. maybe it showed in my voice that I wasn't happy - but when she said 'stop being an A hole' - well, that was unacceptable on top of it, and I called her out on it. This really is not...
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    FR: Dinner date gone wrong

    I think a little more background is in order. There is a history of her telling me what she thinks I want to hear, as opposed to what she rally believes/means/wants. e.g. I installed wood flooring in my house. Asked her opinion on color etc. She agreed with my choice. After it was all said...
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    change of plans...

    Let's get our definitions right. this is about the only phone convo you should have with a FB. "what you doing?" "nothing" "Ok, can I come over?" "Sure" Click.... Tell her you'd like to see her tonight bedore she leaves. Tell her you have an issue (whatever) at work, but you can...
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    FR: Dinner date gone wrong

    We did discuss it later that night when she called. She said she hast eaten a bagel earlier on, and was cooking pasta for herself when I called because she was still hungry. She said she knew I had not eaten so therefore agreed to go to dinner - leaving the pasta in the pan. She didn't want...
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    FR: Dinner date gone wrong

    your right. I'm not mad - just amazed at how clueless some women are.... how easy it is for them to flip the script and blame the guy.... I just can't (and don't need to) put up with the BS.....
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    FR: Dinner date gone wrong

    Dating this chick for a couple of months. background: this girl has always has issues around food. e.g. She invites me over, because she wants to cook dinner for me. I get there, and she's made dinner but doesn't eat anything, because she's not hungry. Other stuff has happened at resteraunts...
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    lives near the earthquake site / ex-girlfriend question

    Knock this sh1t off man. Have you not learned anything from this site?
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    Keeping in contact with an ex

    your assuming that she is done with you - this is not always the case. not everything is a lose lose situation. As long as you are self aware - that you know what you are giving (up) and what you are getting i.e. you are in control, then it's definitely +ve DJ :up:
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    new show- "must love kids"

    Fvck - saw the 1st part of this weeks show. and I quote: "In the past I've tended to date party guys, you know, guys who are the center of the party. Now, I'm looking for somwone who will respect me" perhaps if you'd respected yourself, you wouldn't be in this situation. Man, the...
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    Some guys really need to get that stick out of their ass

    your right. Better she is who she is 100% of the time - than be someone else when you are not around.... if you don't like the way she is, you m ust DTB and get out.
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    Some guys really need to get that stick out of their ass

    I believe it's a case by case situation. When the guy is insecure - i.e. see's her dancing with what he perceives is a 'Threat' (another confident Male or Sexually charged/confident female) he becomes insecure - now swap out the confident male, with a AFC/Geek, and he's now not perceived as such...
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