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21. what makes u think i'm 12?

well, i expresed my feelings in a subtle way. like calling her darling, dear, etc. and most importantly, i flirted with her, i asked her out. by my action, it's clear that i'm interested. i just didn't feel like saying "i love you" or something...

yeah i flirted with her. but maybe i'm too cold. i was rarely being "sweet" or "romantic". i treat her too much as a male friend. well, that's not the point. what i wanna do is to make her melt with my letter, so there's still hope for me and her in the future. please help. this is my...

double post.

mmmm IMO stealing someone's girlfriend is not what you call a good idea. especially if that someone is my friend. thanks, anyway. other opinions? especially about the e-mail. thanks, everyone :)

what? do u mean luring the girl? oh no. what i wanna know is about the e-mail, poll. is it okay to send it? i really want to thank her anyway.

hot update! Great. A few minutes ago that AFC guy asked the girl for the second/third time to be his gf, and SHE ACCEPTS HIM! Oh great, really great. Only 2 days ago i had a nice dinner with her. Oh well, so maybe being an AFC works sometimes. Here i am, act C+F, push/pull, etc. and what...

So what should I do? Tell him?? Oh no, I'm not ready to face the consequences. I'll be labeled "backstabber" by him and his friends (which are my friends too. we have the same circle). btw, I've told him once that I'm going out with her only as friends. and he believes it. oh man, i feel...

DJ Damage: Mmm...John Smith doesn't know that I'm going out with her. And it's him that's been pursuing her longer than me. So you could say that I'm the one who's stealing his plate :( But what can I do, he's an AFC. I'm pretty sure won't get the girl. btw, i just got news from John Smith...

Thank you but I need longer answer :D

So I've been dating this girl for a month. I only see her once a week, so total we've had 4 dates (not including 2 "dates" when we have a friend tag along). My friend John Smith (an AFC) has been pursuing this girl for about 3 months. At first, the girl liked her, but for some reason she...

So I think we all agree that we shouldn't show our interest too much, act indifferent, push/pull, hard to get, etc. Or else, the girls will think they got us in their pockets then they lose interests. But one thing that's on my mind, aren't things like asking her to a date, making eye contact...

so how will an AFC react to that? by asking her again immediately? uh, now my problem is that she keeps a secret about his status to everyone. and I'm shy to ask her about it..

Hello all, So I've known this girl from MySpace since a few months ago and we chat a lot online. And we also meet time and time again at music gigs. But we've never had a real life long conversation. Until she asked me (via IM) to meet her for a hang out with friends (my friends are her...

No, not special. It's just because I can't seem to flirt/talk with beautiful girls without having some romantic thoughts.

No. Come on, sex is not everything you can get from girls.

Because I don't want to be committed to her, u know. Just, you know, flirts around and talks.

How about this "platonic" thing. How to create a platonic relationship?

Yeah, this is a problem i'm encountering right now. So the first time I talked to this girl I use C+F and all that. And I think she was (& is) interested in me. But now I don't feel the same to that girl. It's impossible now to back off and just be friends, right? Because she'll be disappointed...

Sorry if this have been discussed before. I've done some searching and nothing came out. Is there any way to make friends with beautiful girls? Because it seems impossible without having some romantic thoughts. Or even I fall in love with her or the other way around. And then it will ruin...