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5 days is too long. Years ago, before internet dating, it was fine because women had far fewer men asking them out. These days, with online dating, they have plenty of opportunities. So, wait a couple days so they think about you and know you're not too eager, but you also don't let them get...

It is stupid to make blanket statements that no one here provides credible advice because everyone is here due to being failures at dating/relationships. Experience is key, and many people here have experience and are thus able to provide perspective and wisdom to those who haven't gone through...

She definitely has it -- she told me straight up and her behavior seemed to back it (very strong/loud voice, talked a great deal, very animated, etc.). Is it simply an issue of her eventually annoying the hell out of me because she's incessant or something else? She's not BPD and I doubt she's...

Can't pull an HB 8, 9, or 10. Complaining about not being good looking enough? Just a 5 or 6 on some HB's scale? Stop b*tching: http://images.search.yahoo.com/search/images?_adv_prop=image&fr=yfp-t-701&p=facial+burns&.bcrumb=i65EBF5KuKi&save=0

Every so often someone writes a post about his recent ex-gf making up things that never existed or happened in their relationship, or that he did something or didn't do something when in fact the opposite is true, or she lies about X, Y, or Z, etc. In the girl's mind, however, what she is...

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The word is cowardly not cowardess - if you send her a message make sure the spelling and grammar are correct. That said, no, you should not send that to her. Why? Because she will know that you are butt hurt -- and you are. And what are you going to do if she replies: "That's right, and...

Dude it's always another guy. Sucks, but true. How does one go apathetic? Care more emotionally about your hobbies, career, etc. than her while giving her great sex and being funny and entertaining when not having sex.

When you like one particular girl you end up focusing on her too much. That's why spinning plates is important. But even if you don't spin plates, the girl must not be on the forefront of your mind. Your focus should be career, home, fitness, family, friends, education, hobbies -- the girl is...

Or more like you were too needy. Let me make this clear: the thought of "call her later that night to make her feel like a woman by saying thanks for coming out here i had a good time with you" should never cross your mind. NEVER. Let me make this clear: "I told her that i was ready to ****...

Why would she feel like a slut - because she kissed you? Dude, if she knew you thought that all she would see the next time she lays eyes on you is... p*ssy. You have been absorbed into her frame; you need to get out and stay out. Go NC for a few days then ask her out. Well, don't really...

IMO, girls who don't "get" teasing generally are the same ones who don't have much of a sense of humor, tend to be negative and serious about things, etc. They're not all that enjoyable to spend time with -- anyone agree or disagree with this?

What was your excuse? I think you played this weak. Something like: You're so damn sexy I've been holding it back for an hour, I just couldn't take it anymore... would have been better.

Though it can be difficult, always maintain an attitude of "that's cool". So, when she didn't call you, rather than get emotional, you'd just think okay, I have no information as to why she hasn't called, that's cool, it is what it is. Here is an example from around 15 years ago: Plan a date...

Just shut up. You are making this heavy and serious - it should be positive and simple. What girls say means nothing; how they act means everything. Before a girl says you are her boyfriend you have to act like her boyfriend, which means you have to pound her in bed. Have you even kissed...

A very common sign: to talk on the phone you need to do the calling rather than her doing the calling, and when you do talk she is hurrying to end the conversation and hang up.

"Haha that sounds worse than it feels, but Jesus do these women feel so little?" Maybe PinkFl will chime in but in my experience... yes. Women can and do void their emotions for you. Gone. They will then alter reality to prove to themselves that they should feel that way (i.e. no feelings or...

Keep your mouth shut and listen, not just to her words, but what she is conveying non-verbally. Eventually she will demand that you say something. You can go one of two routes: paraphrase back what she said (it doesn't mean you agree or that she is right, it just means she gets to hear what...

"You need to change the title of your thread, it's very misleading. She is avoiding you because you DIDNT give her any intimacy. You didn't fvck her, even after 3-4 dates. Too late now." Ding, ding, ding. A back rub is not intimacy. Kissing is not intimacy. Intimacy is one thing and one...

Okay, here is the deal. When a girl is iffy with you it is not because she is scared of potential relationship. Girls want to be in relationships; it's part of how they define themselves. It is because she is weighing options with someone else. You are backup boy. 99.9% of the time a girl's...