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She cheated her past BF for me. So there..

The truth is, she probably doesn't know that I'm bothered with what she does. I never straight up tell her that it bothers me if she hangs out with that guy. I only said, she can do it with moderation (not too often). The reason is that I don't want to be a controlling BF. But if I could choose...

none at all. they could still have a friendship, of course. but no more "dates".

strangely, i'll feel better.

Actually I'm still indifferent about this situation. There are two sides of opinion here. One who see it as unacceptable and one who don't give a damn about it.

honestly i don't give a damn whether there are 1900 guys that want to **** her. but what i care is whether my gf give them a response or not. and by going out with them, that's considered responsive IMO.

what do you mean by "investing a reducing balance emotional quotient in her"?

Okay, I agree with you about trusting our GF's. But can you trust the guys?? You never know what intention they have and if they want to get your girl, certainly you don't want your girl to give them "false hope" by agreeing to hang out with them.

HAHA!

I've already addressed this issue from DAY 1. I said it's okay for her to hang out once in a while with her guy friends. Although I'd been feeling a little jealous if she went out with a guy friend, but I tried to hide it, feeling that it's just my insecurity. But this issue raised up about a...

no, she doesn't. I don't want to anyway, as it'd be awkward.

I see what you mean. But if be seen from neutral eyes without considering what she's like, is hanging out with a male friend can be considered disrespectful? Even if she tells you about it.

First of all, I want to thank KontrollerX for giving me advices since months ago. :up: Yeah, but he's already a friend with her since 2-3 years ago, far before I even knew her. So why didn't he make the move the first time around? And people say that we shouldn't worry about long time male...

My GF has this long time male friend (about 2 years) that keeps asking my GF to accompany him to the cinema, concert, etc. I know this because she always tell me every time she goes out with him. I don't have a problem with her having a male friend, but the idea of seeing her hangs out...

These films made me cry: Umberto D It's a Wonderful Life Citizen Kane Turtles Can Fly

KontrollerX: the walking her home issue is resolved. I told her to not give in to her friends' opinion. Now the problem is her mom. I've made a thread about it but no reply yet. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=137890

Confront her mom directly. Now that's a scary thought. Any tip? And I don't think it's a load of crap. The mom's overprotective-ness is expected considering that her ex-husband treated her badly.

The walking her home issue, is actually her way to tell me that I must proof my worth to her mother because her mother disapprove our relationship. She didn't dare to straight up tell me. Until two days ago when she's crying when she confessed that her mother thinks that I'm not the right man...

Well, she decided that we shouldn't meet each other for some time until the situation is clear, because her mom asked her why does she go with me so much? (Her mom knows me as her friend.)

I'm 21, she's 19. Yeah, she lives with her mom and sister. Dad divorced. I live with my family. Walking alone at about 9 PM. Her neighborhood is quite safe. Although one time she was approached by a hobo at night.