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Sosuave has always been the place i fall back to, there's tons of knowledge to be shared around here, my head just isn't clear enough to go around searching for stuff on the internet.

Yeah, i don't really care if she has 100 guys really. What i really care about at the moment, is to improve myself more to avoid future problems. I've been through a few breakups, i know soon it won't even matter, i'm just trying to deal with the anxiousness and anger that comes with the break...

Distance is a bit hard, we go to the same university.

If i was in the mood for research i wouldve done it to begin with, i can barelly focus on anything, i got some serious brain fog right now from anxiety and stress.

She gave me a ton of excuses, but its probably because i slacked off a bit, didnt go out as much, was rude to her once in a while, got a bit mushy, i still don't think it was enough for a break up cause i was an overall great boyfriend, but there you have it.

My LTR just broke up with me, and i can't focus at all, any tips to help me clear my head and get through this fast? Should i start dating as soon as possible or take some time off?

Summing up, creep, weirdo, AND dumb. Thanks haha

If it's affecting your confidence level, fix it!

How can someone NOT have a dating life ? You gotta be a real creep/weirdo to not have one.

IMO, i'd say you blew this one. There are only two steps: Get the NUMBER then get the DATE. You did too many stuff in between. Ask her out on a DATE and be clear about it, don't try to trick her into a date like some guys suggest, she'll have an excuse to reject your advances, women KNOW when...

Unecessary i used to live in Boston and Lowell in MA, and also spent some time in NY; Small towns in the US are just as good.

Makes sense. I also live in a small town, so it isn't hard to find good girls.

This isn't healthy and women can probably sense this.

Or, my suggestion; only go out with people you actually LIKE, then you won't have to pretend, you'll actually give a sht. That's what i do, i don't categorize women in a binary way like most men do: would F / would not F. I actually decide based on whether i'd be proud to take her to meet the...

Maybe that's the problem? Too friendly, nice and available? You HAVE to know exactly what's wrong, you have to get to a point where you are aware of every single word that comes out of your mouth and how a woman might react to it.

Moral of the story, it's all about the energy you give off, sounds kind of hippie, but it's all about giving a fun, cool, laid back, got plenty of women, really care about what you have to say, don't want just sex vibe. Trully. I've got rich friends who are still virgins in their mid 20's and...

I'm also unemployed hahaha

I just get numbers and ask them out, during the date i try to be light and funny, no heavy stuff, and the result is 8 times out of 10 they wanna go out again. And i'm not super hot, not shred, nor tall (5'8). I mostly follow Doc Love's System, i wouldn't have half the success i have if i was...

That makes no sense. I'm 23 and i've been on dates with dozens of women, and i'm super shy and introverted mind you. How or why have you been on so few?

Been out on 12 dates? Younger years? What's going on here?