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For all of you guys who are getting over the loss of a woman, do some exercise. Forget talking about things. Forget thinking about things. Get off your a*s and get moving. I finally did some exercise last night, the first after things ended with my ex, and I felt a lot better. There was a...

Joe You are totally right. I'm trying my best not to look back. A few weeks after everything ended, I started dating another girl, and looking for others. I wasn't feeling any pain then but I was only putting my issues on 'pause'. I've been going through a lot of pain since she moved her...

Ricky, I had that happen in the end of my engagement, which I'm in the middle of grieving from right now. She told me she loved me...Said that she couldn't believe she was doing what she was doing...and left. That was after 3 years of living together. You have to remember that we, as men, act...

Thanks Gipper, I'm sure I'll be where you are at some point. Intellectually, I know she betrayed me, decieved me, and just didn't respect me. But my emotions are different. There is a definite gap between the two. The negative energy will subside and I'll get back to living right.

Hithard, thanks for your support. I wish I could go out and enjoy something, anything, right now. I've been trying and nothing seems to be making me feel better at this point. Things are getting worse each day. It is frightening how poorly she behaved towards me in the end. And the hardest...

I don't know how long it has been since you guys had your breakups, but for me, the breakup happened last month. However! She didn't finish getting her stuff out of my place until the weekend. I know, she took her sweet time. Well, that's who she is 'now'. In fact, the last note she left for me...

Hey Gipper, I remember your posts on here from before I met this last one. 2002? You were a big help back then. Maybe we can help each other out again this time around....

Called back girl from burger joint. Got answering machine with different name than she told me. But whoever it was called back and said she was the girl I'd met. She could barely talk from the laughter. Clearly it wasn't her, maybe a friend or some sh*t. Tough skin. Gotta have tough skin...

I'm asking the same question myself. Although I haven't moved to a new place, all of my friends are married and don't do anything social. I was in an LTR/engagement for the past three years and didn't really expand my social circle much since she didn't have many friends. So now I have my best...

As maybe a few of you know, I just got out of a three-and-a-half-year LTR last month. It's been pretty tough getting over it (engaged, lived together, close families....) However, I finally got back to being a DJ this week. Yes, that sentence means exactly what it says. You see, I wasn't...

I'm in a similar situation as you are now. I was with my fiance for 3.5 years and the relationship ended a couple months ago. In hindsight, it should have ended a long, long time ago. But with emotional connection and the thought of how much I committed to making it work, I erroneously ignored...

Hey Guys, Thanks for all the help. I didn't call, but she called today. Date is planned for Monday. Maybe I'm making the right moves but I'm not confident about what I'm doing anymore.

Thanks GirlCrazy. Good advice. I'm only working on one, this one right now. It took me over a month to get over losing my fiance. And this lady showed some interest at work. I just haven't gotten out to look for others. I do need to get out and get some girls in the pipeline. I know that...

Thanks guys, but I guess I'm looking for something more specific to this situation. Docs, do you mean just forget about it and Next her?

How long have I not been DJing? Over three years. How long have I been talking to this new lady? 4 weeks 1st week=one chat 2nd week= lunch and number close 3rd week= two dates 4th week= one date so far (she bought lunch)

Hey all. You might remember me from a few years ago. I was in an LTR with an HB, who I got utilizing my eroded-as-you-will-soon-see DJ skills, but it ended a few months ago. A correlation? Now I'm trying to get my back on track. My skills are gone, believe me! So I'm gonna be seeking advice...

Hey all. You might remember me from a few years ago. I was in an LTR with an HB, who I got utilizing my eroded-as-you-will-soon-see DJ skills, but it ended a few months ago. A correlation? Now I'm trying to get my back on track. My skills are gone, believe me! So I'm gonna be seeking advice...

"Classic DJ Technique," That's funny as sh*t. Hey, that went much better than that time you hit on the Victoria's Secret girl! Good Work. Keep it up.

Good Post T Dog. Your advice is always right on. Wyld Stallyuns!

"Coffee is for Closers" One of my favorite movies "Glenn Gary, Glenn Ross" contains this line. If you haven't seen this film, this line is said by Alec Baldwin. He's the hard-ass who is brought in to shape up some salesmen who work for this sleazy, cut-throat company. He tells Jack Lemmon that...