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Had a date 3 days ago - went well, ended up kissing deeply in the bar we outsid afterwards. Texted day after - 1 More text exchange since -Got a text today about how sexually attacted and connected to me she is but is upset I didn’t twxt how are you etc (we’ve had 1 date!) - we’re meeting...

Because I’ve recently returned to casual dating (and responding to a Long brewing but ultimately recent low interest rejection) I’ve listened to a couple of Confidence and relaxation hypnosis recordings over the last month and studied a bit about calmness and wavelength (Recent Stormrider thread...

So update on this long running story - she’s recently separated from her husband (he’s stayed in Portugal) she in London - she told me Last week so we arranged to meet today - met up for ****tail making session, we luckily had a place to ourselves so good to talk (she told me she’s having...

question to perusers of SoSuave - the UK prime minister Boris Johnson has just simultaneously announced he’s engaged and his fiancee is pregnant - this will be his 3rd marriage and estimated to be his 7th or 8th child (information not fully publically available) - he won the election late last...

This post perfectly crystallises the dynamics of polarised relationships in 1000 words or less - A+

Thanks for all the feedback - the grand full spectrum I wanted - both in work today after Christmas break and she’s brought back from Portugal some food for me that we’ve talked about before (a ‘quid pro quo’ for something she asked from me) - ie it is still ticking over and still there - didn’t...

there’s a concept in the UK about fishing for girls (also a dating app term for casting out bland messages far and wide and seeing who bites) there’s a plethora of approach systems, style guides, ‘hook and bait’ techniques, PUA processes etc that look to arm you with the best fibre glass rods...

Thanks for the feedback - the work dynamic will change in less than 6 months and I’ve had a sussessful work relationship in the past - as you say the key point is the married element and as she is hesitating I’ll do as stated above and call the flirting out and back off.

Getting shot - this is leafy North London

Appreciate your feedback black widow - have thought about the wider implications re; work/relationship dynamic - this has been going on quite a few months and I feel it needs to be called out and I will take the lead and state that I respect your decision re marriage have no interest in breaking...

Short version I’m in relationship 2.5 years - (I’m 46) - she married 6 months ago (35) - power dynamic I lead on projects she works on - she’s nerdy, beautiful data analyst. Constant, active flirting (including sexual talk - see hot flushes, nervousness etc) - hot and cold - people comment on...

my last 2 set up dates both flaked in the same way - date and time confirmed 2/3 days before date - 1 was a first date, 2nd was a 3rd Date (at my house) - both times after 20 minutes of no show I ring them and they both say they were waiting for the time to be confirmed!!! - accept its low...

Can relate - had a lunch date at my house set up today - sent time and date - got sounds great and some in joke stuff about revealing. This was 3 days ago - she didn't turn up - rang and said she was waiting for me to confirm the time! argh - there's flaking and then there's simply low level...

All - 2nd post on here - really getting this game - 43, in London and more grounded/confident day by day - 3 most recent experiences - just returned from 2nd date with really cute, very petit (5 ft - I'm 6 ft 3!) 23 year old Chinese graduate - however failed to deploy at end. have bright 45...

Back in the dating game in London after 7 years ltr - first date back was a great start - a stunning Brazilian lady (when first met in a bar had a man come up and shake my hand - could obviously see how well we were getting on) few schoolboy errors - gave her my number (she texted next day)...