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Glad I could help. Btw, I wrote another post on shyness on my blog.

Quick update... You can read this article and others like it on my new blog: http://artfulseduction.com

What is an insecurity? Insecurity is the habit of doubting yourself and your abilities. You feel inadequate and inferior. You feel like everybody else knows more than you, has more friends than you, has better skills than you and in general is better than you. There are some key issues...

If you just want to date her, then ask her out and take your time building trust. Look beyond sex as a goal and try to integrate her into your life. If you just want to do her and then move on (i.e. consider her a conquest) then you can still do it but it's bad karma. You will mess her up even...

Just state what you want not what package you want it in :D

Why the f*** do you need a relationship right now? You're young. Relationships are nothing but emotional vortexes which when you're not handled to deal with can ruin you. Have fun with this girl, be sexual and explore things together. Your need to have the relationship is what's making you...

My guess is you still want her for a relationship and EVEN if you think you want to "recover" this to a FB relationship. My advice to you? First take some time off from contacting her. Give it 2-3 weeks. Date some other women in the meanwhile even if it doesn't lead anywhere. Then call her up...

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If you have another year left in college and want to maximize everything here's what you do. Organize a party!! Talk to people in your classes, introduce yourself and tell them that you plan to organize a party in a few weeks. Ask them to invite their friends and get their number. Do this with...

Of course they are shy, especially with a high-value guy such as you. This forum keeps beating onto men that they need to raise their value when in reality they just need to act normal and girls will like them more. If you want these girls to talk to you, you need to tone it down. You can't tone...

They seem to be intimidated by you somehow. Are you too tall? Do you dress extravagantly? Are you really good looking? You could be increasing your value so much that these girls think you're unapproachable. Maybe you should tone it down, whatever you're doing, tone down your clothes, your...

You've gotten a lot of good advice already but I want to point out that the reason you feel hopeless is that you haven't quite figured out what you want both right now and for later on in life. WC2 is right. There also seem to be many things that you "should" do or that you're "supposed" to do...

Getting the first kiss out of the way is huge in setting the tone for the remaining dates. You don't even need to invite her over and cook dinner and make a move, in fact I'd advise against this till after the first kiss because it will put too much pressure on you to "make a move" Unless you...

Funny you should post that link up because it's exactly that article that turned me inside out. I'd sit there looking for signs, looking for signs, when in reality only one "sign" mattered. Compliance. It saved me

The typical approach here is to neutralize a girl's value and neg them. Only someone who's insecure and thinks of themselves as low value will try and neg the girl to drop her off the pedestal. Just look at leaders in general. They make things better for everyone. Even the whole idea of doing...

So what do you want to do? "Lock her in" as your gf? If she's exploring options and you don't want a gf (I wouldn't want a girl who's exploring options to be my gf) then the only thing left to do is be fvck buddies or friends with benefits. Either way, do the opposite of what all the others are...

There is a saying in NLP. It goes: "The meaning of something is the result you get!" if she feels you're being pushy then the meaning of your "kino escalation" is that you're a pushy person. It doesn't matter what you think or how you feel about it, what matters is the result you get (in this...

Here's the deal bro. You want to be happy. You don't want to be depressed. Nobody does. However, you're looking for happiness in external things, women, material possessions, etc. I want you to shift your focus internally. What sorts of things make you happy intrinsically? What kinds of things...

Hey man, you didn't have to quote the whole post to write a 2 line reply :D The way I did it was by changing my mindsets and switch them around. If you have a specific question post it here and I'll do my best to anwser it.

Of course not. You've got to keep her on her toes. You my friend are still young (I see age 20 but who knows) and as such your main focus now should be to explore life. If you're in college, try taking some classes that might interest you so you can discover what you like. Then, you just follow...