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Now All right all right, already. Enough bashing! I get the point, either way, I can't distract myself with any decision I make, I think it's all about getting what I deserve, and I'll look elsewhere if I can't get it there. Simple as that.

Decision "Ok, we'll be friends, on one condition. I need to know 100% that your decision was based on your problems, not me as a person." I'm going to start looking elsewhere, if she strays then it wasn't meant to be. no big whoop.

Ah 'whatever' Excuse!?! She's also on anti-anxiety meds, you cannot question someone's logic at that point. I'm not too worried about it, really. Her take is she can't afford a relationship right now, because she herself puts time into one. So, I can call her on her bull**** in front of all...

She is a nice person, and she doesn't seem the type to cheat. I've been through some relationships like that, and I don't see this in her. I've met her family already. In addition, her paperwork for divorce is almost done. She is moving along with that. I just found out today that she is...

I do NOT play games. I believe with my heart that the girl I've been dating for 7 weeks does not either (I have met many of her good friends, and they tell me to take care of her because she is a kind soul). She has always treated me with respect and answered my calls. We have both shown our...

I agree There are just too many problems going on with this person that the more and more I think about it, the better off I am NOT knowing them. She wants attention, plain and simple. I'm sure she's out trying to get it with a lesser person on Craigslist, while her money whittles away...

Any more opinions gentlemen/women?

I'd like to say Thank you all for your words, it has sealed the deal with things. For the record, her 'no more sex because you think it's a challenge' argument was after I initiated the breakup, and she tried to accuse me of lying to her about my one-night stand. I'll keep you all posted on...

I'm not sure if that's so right I'm not afraid of hurting her feelings, I want to do this the right way, and avoid any bad situations. Tiptoeing a bit can make the difference between a cool and an ugly situation. What matters is that I know I am over the situation. I don't want a vengeful...

Damage Control I want to slowly get out of her life - that's why the 'let's just be friends' issue isn't a problem for me. If I cut her off, there might be more backlash, a la, 'you weren't my real friend'. If I don't it can be tapered away. Downside is that she'll think she has me, upside...

I'll try to make this simple, and maybe this will serve as advice and caution for everyone. Please comment if you've had a similar experience. About 8 months ago a woman on myspace contacted me regarding meeting up (she is now 36). We had sex the first night, I learned that she was in the...