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    Open relationship since we have a kid together, but should I tell this to others?

    To do it correctly your main needs to understand you are not running off with another woman. The other women is there to provide the variety you crave and the only way your main can give that to you is to allow other women in your relationship. Your side needs to understand her place also...
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    Open relationship since we have a kid together, but should I tell this to others?

    We've done the swinger thing also. It's fun if you can connect with other quality couples.
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    Open relationship since we have a kid together, but should I tell this to others?

    I am in an open relationship of sorts also. We been married for 18 years and have two kids. She doesn't see anyone outside our marriage but I do. I've found it to be true also that women who are slightly older will accept you being in an open relationship than younger women. I am always...
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    I have been Friend zoned

    I agree 100% with the above. You have to make it clear what you want. If she not down for that remove all your attention from her and move on to women who truly want you. Remember attention is a currency. Don't waste it on people who aren't giving you what you want.
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    Top Gun Maverick movie Review

    I felt the same way, it was well written with no bs feminism embedded. No fake girl heroes or bumbling idiot beta boys. It's definitely like going back in time.
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    Getting into shape - did it help?

    In my experience being fit definitely helps and women do notice it. However, a fit body will only get you so far. Having confidence, an outgoing personality and knowing your value (not being a simp). Are a big part of the equation. I'm 40 and keep visible abs most of the time. I'm...
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    Poll traveling in a group.

    This conversation came up with a friend today. You are navigating a large crowd of strangers with your family. Where do you walk?
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    Looking down her phone

    Lol...I so would have done this
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    Sexual attraction and crotch glances

    I've had this happen before also. I'm interested in knowing as well. I always took it as they are checking me out.
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    They always come back around

    This chick that turned me down about a year ago has been trying to warm up to me again when I see her in person. I had made it clear previously that I wasn't interested in platonic friendship. I proceeded to distance myself from her and focus on other women which has gone very well. She...
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    Southern Illinois University - Carbondale

    I frequent the Carbondale area.
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    Is it ever appropriate to confront girls on flaky behavior?

    I understand. I feel it's important to draw a hard-line on things that are disrespectful. Not showing up when you said you would with no prior message or even a message after with an excuse is disrespectful of someone's time.
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    Is it ever appropriate to confront girls on flaky behavior?

    A women would lose me if she didn't message me with some sort of excuse. No show is disrespect in my book. She wouldn't get another chance after that.
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    I'm getting mixed signals.. give me advice

    Don't waste your time texting a bunch. If she reaches out set a definite date with her and put your phone away. If she's agreeing to meet in person and is showing up this is good. Just have fun in person. If she pulls back you do the same until you hear back from her. Don't over think her...
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    Is it ever appropriate to confront girls on flaky behavior?

    I never text for confirmation. If I made definite plans with someone I keep them and I expect her to also. Women will almost always message you ahead for confirmation if they plan on showing and I tell her just that. "If I made plans with you I will keep them".
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    Is it ever appropriate to confront girls on flaky behavior?

    In my opinion the best response is no response. Remove all attention from her. If shes lying to you she needs to lose access to you and your life.
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    Is it ever appropriate to confront girls on flaky behavior?

    Yes #1s get your weekend. All others weekdays
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    Is it ever appropriate to confront girls on flaky behavior?

    It's worked best for me if I ask the #1 option out to definite plans. Option #2 I will let them know I might be free on this day and would like to see them but I leave it more open ended. So if #1 flakes I then make the offer to #2 with definite plans. It sounds complicated but really...
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    Is it ever appropriate to confront girls on flaky behavior?

    Double or triple booking is a good strategy. It's always good to have a second option. I don't confront women typically but simply pull back when they act this way. I see flaking as a sign of disinterest and can be somewhat disrespectful depending on how she flakes. I just remove my...
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    Counting/Estimating Calories is Life Changing

    I use an app called simple macro that works really well. Tracking will train you to eat properly. The biggest improvement physically came after I got my diet straight.
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