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Not LTR material for sure, but I have to say you held your own very well, Skyline. If you keep it up (if you wish to do so) you might turn her into a plate, understanding that anything more than that is definately not desirable.

Does it not fapping for like 4/5 days and not watching porn before meeting a girl improve your performance in the sack?

I call scam on that

Agree with skinnyguy, but these advices are also good while in a relationship. Keep her guessing as much as you can, and keep yourself busy without her too

I would add another one: BE PATIENT. Sometimes you just want to cut to the chase and skip alot of the foreplay, which is always a bad idea (unless SHE decides to go for it earlier)

Have to say, made the mistake quite often of not cutting out the porn when being with a GF, bad idea. I think it really hurts the libido. From your experience, is 20/25 minutes of cardio 3/4 times a week enough for you to be able to maintain a good performance in the sack?

Tricky part sometimes can be to do the spinning and not get caught....

Is it feasible to break NC with an ex you dumped, and turn her into a occasional plate? And how long should you wait to break it?

So you never go exclusive with anyone, anytime?

I was spinning this plate 3 and a half years ago but in the end I decided to ghost and ended up going into a LTR with another girl. However that is over, and I want to get this plate back into the fold again I invited said plate for a coffee a week ago to which she agreed, it went OK but I didnt...

I walked away from my exgf after for the 2nd time I found out she was talking to some guy who even she admitted was interested in her. Warned the 1st time she did it, walked away the 2nd time I found out about that one.

What if you do the dumping and then go NC, do they also contact you after that, usually?

Related to the topic of this conversation (being back on the market again), I just found an old OLD interest from some 5 years ago on Facebook. Back then we had a couple of good dates but I didnt escalate (bad move) and then ended up going another direction and not talking again with this girl...

So very true. I had a similar break up couple of weeks ago (posted before about it) and sometimes I do wonder the same, even though I know I took the right decision.

Thanks Poon King. I made the mistake in my last relationship of not cutting out right at the beginning any orbiters around, and that came back to bite me in the a§§ later on, which contributed in a big way for me to terminate the relationship. Lesson that I learned: establish very clearly your...

Spinning several plates WHILE having a main one must be a tough challenge for any guy to not get caught, so on that note alone well done OP

Again, blame the guy. If he tries to setup a good mood for sex, he is an a$$hole. If he doesnt, that means he is fooling around with others. No mention to the fact that husband was there way before any kid came along....

I guess then that when the best friend of your GF is a guy, thats not good news... Had a case like that before.

Cutting out the orbiters is a must for any man (although its always so difficult to do so) but with close friends I always struggled a bit because I could never be sure in some cases why a guy and a girl are friends for years without anything sexual happening between the 2 (if none of them is...

I reckon you did the same?