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Well here is pretty much what that test just told me. "Very few people display a blatant lack of jealousy. In your case, the lack is not blatant. Nevertheless, you appear to be a person in whom jealousy can be evoked but who does not live in a permanent state of fear of losing someone" I...

Thanks guys. Its definitely the one trait I have to focus on. Granted I have come a long ways because before I would get jealous over chick I wasn't even with [AFC huh?] Now it only tends to sneak its way out with girls that I have been dating for a while. Its like there's a threshold for...

Allright guys. It has taken me a while to build up the nerve to post this because I really thought I could train myself, but I think I may need a little advice. Back in the good ole AFC' I use to always show my jealously when I was with girls. It took me a long time to realize how bad it is...

Comedy Club!!! I have never gone wrong with this as a first date. People can bash me but it has always worked. One there is no need to entertain the whole time. It can get her laughing. Tickets are relatively cheap. You can have a couple drinks. Dinner if you want but if you don't have...

Yeah I guess I dont' think the whole article is terrible, but I am just hooked on number 5, I guess. "Be a good friend. And don't hesitate to follow your heart when it wants you to be a good friend and something more, too. My AFC days were when I was a "good" friend to a lot of girls trying to...

Ok I was reading through MSN and stumbled on this stupid article. http://love.msn.com/personals/article3.asp Anybody else see this. I especially like number 5. "5. We say we want a nice guy, but it's not true Yes, you know some women — maybe many women — who have gone out with...

Emotional tampon definitely my old number 1 afc problem. Then when girls said, "your such a good friend", I would get excited like it was going somewhere, then I would get pissed off and depressed when it didn't work out. Man was I stupid. Now when I hear your a good friend, I say "I'm not...

Yeah i didn't think I fvcked up too bad because I got an email the next day saying, "good morning, blah sorry if I was wierd last night...."

You know those girls who are wild in bed, then you have the ones the just don't move to much. Well I haven't slept with this chick yet but it seems she is the latter of the two. So we are making out but it seems like she is not into it because, I think, for the reason stated above. So me...

I see what you mean about hanging out in different situations and sh*t. Multiple times we have just hung out at her apt, whether it be her making dinner for me or watching a movie. When we hang out during the week though its tough to find interesting things to do. Neither of us get home until...

By being c&f and being in control of every situation, etc has gotten me pretty far with this HB. However, I know you are not suppose to tell them your whole life story, etc because if you remain some what mysterious it keeps IL higher right?. Its not that I am wierdly mysterious to her, I know...

Hey guys, now I am just asking this question to get a general idea. Now I am smart enough to know that the real answer is "It all depends". I don't need to hear any stuff about that. I just want a general answer to this question. I don't mean a one night stand deal. I'm talking about a...

Nice starman, nice. lol The trust thing I think you got it. One time we were joking around about something and I say sarcastically, what you dont' trust me? What did she say but "Trust is Earned" lol thanks guys, I got to get outta here, wish me luck...

She's is older than I am almost into her late 20's. That's why I can't figure the situation out also. Older women like to have fun right...

Thanks guys. xblitz, i like that idea, i will have to try that one. Oscar, she is stopping me from progressing because we will kissing, etc and it starts to get a little more passionate. As we pull apart she will go and hug me. At first I though ok she doesn't like me kissing her, etc. The...

Anything gentlemen?

Alright quick situation. I've been hanging out with this HB a few times. We been out on multiple dates and have been back to her place afterwards too. Whenever we are at her place there is no problem with the kissing, etc. Her interest level, seems to be pretty high, etc. However, I am...

I'm in a similar situation right now. I find it nice to actually be with a mature women, who is a lot of fun but have to deal with less of the B/S from the young girls. The key point here is to be careful not to get too attached, just go have some fun. Also the fact that your in college or...

Well guys I am going to keep this tip short. But I just got thinking about how many times I have seen this work to perfection. So you have been talking to a girl that you like, maybe you have even been on a date or two with them. Then comes the time where this HB is like "there's a party a...

Yo K I've had that happen more than once. Actually it really doesn't bother me that much unless your friends catch you trying it [In a public place/club, etc]. Then they never stop antagonizing you. :) If it is in a public place or something I just shrug it off and continue to have a...