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    How Not to Wear Your Heart On Your Sleeve

    its interesting, but what it fails to grasp is that one should not strive to be completely emotionless. Humans are emotional creatures. Embrace them. Mix in a manly dose of objectivity, rationality and logic and your completely set.
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    I am happier and do better when I am away from this site.

    jake..i posted something similar to this, but in a different context. Check it out: http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=41277 What I find really ironic is taht this site teaches people over and over again to be your own man, not to make women the center of your...
  3. J

    I fvcked up again...

    what did u find out about thats making you all "crazy"?
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    Just started dating girl and she bought me a gift..

    Reading Gigalo's reply when you're mad stoned is absolutely hilarious:D
  5. J

    Ideas for date on winter break

    :D :D :D :D :D :D!!!!!
  6. J

    Im Sick Of Being Called A "sweeeetie"

    its been said countless times..the "Nice" part of your personality is not what is hindering you from getting laid. I consider myself a nice guy-Thoughtful, sincere, honest. But, the difference between me and an AFC Nice guy is that I'm aggressive sexually, I'm not a doormat, I don't tolerate...
  7. J

    Just started dating girl and she bought me a gift..

    papier mache:confused: :confused:
  8. J

    Give me some help...im going insane

    MY advice? You're not ready for this chick. Even if she wasn't being "schemy" (and you are the only one to discern if she was), your insecurity and jealousy will drive her away forever. This is why it is so important to work on "yourself" and make sure you really have your shyt together...
  9. J

    **** I think my best friends girl likes me

    I had this happen to a good friend of mine with his roommate's girl. He is possibly like you. Kind of handsome, but so uncomfortable around girls and ultimately the situation. She loved it. She kept on coming on to him while his roommate was there, and he didnt mind in the slightest. He...
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    (probably final) Update on LTR

    JUSTDOIT, and stop using the phrase " she made me jealous" Understand it is ANOTHER FACT that jealousy is NOT created my anyone else except you. I you don't believe me, I'm sure you can check out thousands of psychiatric or psychlogical reports on the cause of jealousy. Knowing that YOU...
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    (probably final) Update on LTR

    OK, so what youre saying is that because its an innate trait, we MUST use it? Why? Just because some white boys got some idea thousands of years ago that they were more superior to blacks and decided to enslave them for thousands of years, that makes it all right? "Mother Nature" equipped...
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    (probably final) Update on LTR

    JUSTDOIT, I think you're wrong. ARAMAS is delving into the depths of how we "ought to act" because ultimately that is what we should strive for. I don't care how many guys out there are fearful and jealous chumps. It doesn't make it right. I will always strive to be better. Jealousy is NOT...
  13. J

    No Christmas gifts?

    Dont get yourself bent outta shape by it: Relax. If she was cheating it would suck. But you know your gf better than we do. You would )with the help of this site) not to settle with a girl that could ever potentially betray your trust. HOWEVER: Long distance realtionships are not worth...
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    do you strive to come across as attractive to everyody?

    I know what all of you guys are saying: "Once you have the mindset, you'll be attractive to everyone, all the time" As most of you know now, I have a gf, and usually when I meet some new girls who are (IMO) not attractive (looks wise) I really don't give a shyt about turning on the...
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    No Christmas gifts?

    bump..to the thread starter..whats your "gut" telling you?
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    (probably final) Update on LTR

    MOTU, I'm compassionate towards your situation but you must have consciously known that by initiating a "break", there could have been a chance she would never be yours again. It was a choice you felt you had to make, but not many choices come without serious and sometimes heart wrenching...
  17. J

    Don Juan Code of Conduct

    this thread is boring!:confused: :confused: :confused: :confused: ;)
  18. J

    Are Rock Concerts a good place for a date?

    its a perfect date idea. Just make sure your girl doesnt go backstage to suck the lead singers (or even worse, the drummers!) coque after the show Good idea man. Especially if its an acoustic set.:)
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    No Christmas gifts?

    because x mas gifts can be seen as a symbol for ones affection,love and appreciation from your significant other.. And now you're thinking that if she doesn't to get you any x mas gifts, that she must not feel very strongly for you..because as they say (listen to her actions rather than her...
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