How Not to Wear Your Heart On Your Sleeve

[the_great_gaia]

I am a DJ- it is what I believe to be. I can get numerous girls, and by just looking at them. I know the right things to say, I know how to execute at the perfect moments. I know the secrets. But I do have ONE flaw. And I have been told by MANY. I Wear My Heart On My Sleeve. I really need to cut this $hit out, it's fvcking pathetic. Can anyone give me some motivation or advice on how NOT to wear my heart on my sleeve? I don't like being this way, and unfortunately it's the only response I have to myself when I get a chic. I need to follow on the path which shows me exactly how NOT to wear my heart on my sleeve. Will somebody guide me? Thank you all.

 

[slipstreamer83]

I think you should relax and enjoy the moment, don´t think about anything that could happen in the future. Anyway, if you say that you feel attached to a girl when you know her that says that maybe naturally you don´t want to get laid by many different women, but that you prefer to be OK with just one. I think that this is OK. This depends on you. If you get laid by many and you don´t feel like it´s completely right then maybe it´s not what you need.

Good luck!!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Imagine a room full of furniture, a warm, cozy living room. Imagine each article and object in the room to be a human quality and or emotion. The couch is sex, the table is love , the t.v. is lust for material items.

Visualize every article in this room...and now visualize yourself taking each article of furniture out of your room one at a time until it is completely empty.

Now your room is calm, peaceful, powerful and cold. This is what happens when you empty a room full of furniture., there is the absence of life, of a soul. It becomes an empty shell. The human body can be like an empty shell. It reflects out and once life leaves the body, the ouside becomes cold and it's temperature changes, as does its apperance.

An empty room can be whatever you the renter wants it to be, it has no form. The potential of an empty room is limitless.

When you empty out the emotions you no longer wear your heart on your sleeve cause you no longer have one weighing you down and destroying the peace of your room.

 

[the_great_gaia]

ok, what i'm learning now is: i shouldn't create or visualize any of these emotions, i.e. don't put any furniture into my empty room, and by not doing so, there will be nothing in my way in this room. any input?

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

hey Player_Supreme howd you think of that , thats a neat observation.

 

[jbbrain]

its interesting, but what it fails to grasp is that one should not strive to be completely emotionless.

Humans are emotional creatures. Embrace them. Mix in a manly dose of objectivity, rationality and logic and your completely set.

 

[the_great_gaia]

man, i can't believe what i did tonight. i called this BlTCH tonight. We were all goodie goodie on the phone. But we had a conflict last night; I was stood up by her at the movies (which she invited me to go with her). I told myself I was gonna leave this BlTCH alone, next thing you know. I'm on the phone with her. Again, we were goodie goodie, but she thinks she caught me in a lie and she hung up on me.
My question: How would I go about a girl that hangs up on me.? Hey, not only that, when I was dumb enough to call her back, her cell phone was OFF (hahaha). I didn't call back after that, instead i came here. Listen, I KNOW what I need to do. I just have to stop adjusting my limits to doing something stupid (example: I said I wasn't gonna call her last night and I convinced myself the next day to call her). I know she is like "I got him wrapped around my finger. Fvck that, I need to break this shyt. I'm gonna next her. Plenty more girls. I just need to take myself serious. This is a case of "Man Versus Himself". Hey, instead of replying to this post, IM me on AIM my screen name is "the great jenova". Help me thru this one. (Damn I can't believe this shyt) Post here if you want though

 

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Imagine a room full of furniture, a warm, cozy living room. Imagine each article and object in the room to be a human quality and or emotion. The couch is sex, the table is love , the t.v. is lust for material items.

Visualize every article in this room...and now visualize yourself taking each article of furniture out of your room one at a time until it is completely empty.

Now your room is calm, peaceful, powerful and cold.

Player, did you just run a Speed Seduction pattern on Gaia?

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by the_great_gaia
man, i can't believe what i did tonight. i called this BlTCH tonight. We were all goodie goodie on the phone. But we had a conflict last night; I was stood up by her at the movies (which she invited me to go with her). I told myself I was gonna leave this BlTCH alone, next thing you know. I'm on the phone with her. Again, we were goodie goodie, but she thinks she caught me in a lie and she hung up on me.
My question: How would I go about a girl that hangs up on me.? Hey, not only that, when I was dumb enough to call her back, her cell phone was OFF (hahaha). I didn't call back after that, instead i came here. Listen, I KNOW what I need to do. I just have to stop adjusting my limits to doing something stupid (example: I said I wasn't gonna call her last night and I convinced myself the next day to call her). I know she is like "I got him wrapped around my finger. Fvck that, I need to break this shyt. I'm gonna next her. Plenty more girls. I just need to take myself serious. This is a case of "Man Versus Himself". Hey, instead of replying to this post, IM me on AIM my screen name is "the great jenova". Help me thru this one. (Damn I can't believe this shyt) Post here if you want though

Dont contact her anymore. If she contacts you, be polite and be a gentleman, attempt to dJ subtley (nothing big). However, DO NOT CONTACT HER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES!

 

[the_great_gaia]

i will not contact her. i don't have that one-itis thing, so yeah, i'll be okay. I was listening to some old Eminem, and I had to post something he said: "I do know one thing though, bltches; they come;they go" And this is what my situation is all about. They come and go, but I'm not gonna worry or lose control. Things always begin; things always end. With me, these mind games are over. I am moving on to the next chic, but now I'm a lil' colder. Fvck these hoe$