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Update: I msged her yesterday asking if we're on for Saturday. She replied saying that she had to exchange shifts at work and can no longer come. No alternative times given so I think i'll go NC. It was 1 date but I fell too hard too soon and it might have showed. Is there anything you guys...

That's all you need right there. Next her.

Don't think this is the best response here. She hasn't replied in days, flaking here seems like i'm trying to avoid rejection and does nothing to INCREASE her interest, only to decrease it further.

I was thinking of repeating the question in a simple way, 'Hey, are we ___ Saturday?' Re-affirms my intentions in a simple question that doesn't show neediness/desperation.

What can you text out of the blue when the last thing you said to her was that you're free for another day and she didn't reply to that? It's hard to casually start a conversation, especially since so far we've only set plans to meet through text.

This was after one date, i texted her to go out again to which she replied that she can't go on the days I set however she could go tomorrow. I told her I couldn't tomorrow and suggested her other free day only to not get a reply. This is why it's confusing seeing the date went well and she...

How do you text a girl you think is on the fence or is losing interest and is sending messages as to when she is free only to not reply for days. I want to send a text re-affirming whether she wants to still meet up and if she doesn't, not to waste anymore time leading me on.

No ^ Not the impression you want to give her. Your plan is good it all depends on how you follow through. If she was interested before and was ready to have sex with you within weeks the first time I'd say that's your timeline (maybe a bit shorter). Slowly ramp up interest in her, starting off slow.

Anything else?

Thanks, you're right about every point.

I kissed her on the cheek at the end/hug. We got close at the theater. Not much more you can do in such a situation on the first date. Like I previously stated, she is a normal/down to earth girl and not a club sloot. She was down to meet up the day after I sent the text if I would have changed...

First time making a thread/post here. Hoping for honest feedback. About myself, I'm neither someone that routinely goes out to meet women nor someone that has no idea what they are doing when approaching a woman. I've been in a couple of long-term relationships that both died off amicably when...