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  1. jimjam

    How would you handle this?

    You're right, of course. And it's in hindsight that we realize our blunders. I keep telling myself, ABC, always be closing, but I seem to hesitate at the moment of truth. Just have to let go of my outcome. Thanks for the advice
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    How would you handle this?

    Thanks for all of your thoughts and input. I appreciate it. Went back to the track but I didn't see her. Oh, well. I'll introduce myself if I ever see her again. And if I don't see her? So what. I'll live and be happy. Tried chatting up this one in the store today. She had on a t-shirt of...
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    How would you handle this?

    First off, as some of you know, this is all new to me. I mean, it was easy in my twenties. I really didn't have to work at it. Women, game, etc. But since being married, divorced, my son, everything seems complicated. My point is, please forgive me if I seem naïve. Anyway, there's this track...
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    First date in years

    Online Dating SUCKS!!!! No other word for it. I have one on the hook who I met through POF. Tentative plans for Thursday. I'll meet her but she better either look like an underwear model or be fantastic in bed. That's it for my online dating. Too many nuts and skankaroos
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    First date in years

    Incidentally, Scaramouch, you are 100% correct. One thing this fooling around on-line taught me is that it's simply not worth it.
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    First date in years

    I actually didn't bring my son to meet a woman. I had made plans to take my son to this event weeks ago (it was an antique car show. He likes the shiny chrome and the bright colors.) I learned through e-mailing back and forth that she was also going. I told her I'd say hello if I saw her. I saw...
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    First date in years

    Okay... kind of an update I met the other one on Sunday. She seemed okay, a bit silly perhaps, but that's expected. We couldn't really talk much as we met at a venue where I had my four year old son with me. So I really had my mind more on him than on her. Nevertheless, we made...
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    First date in years

    Gentlemen: The date was tonight. She looked NOTHING like her profile picture. I was somewhat disappointed. I think she may have been disappointed as well. To her credit, we did hang out for a while and shot some pool. It was a nice time but i'm not attracted to her. Is this how it goes...
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    Can this offset being bald?

    Baldness comes from your mom's heredity, look for relatives on her side. That's bull. Im 42 and going bald. My father's bald. His father was bald. No one on my mom's side is bald. I would say that hair is a non-issue. If it bothers you, then it'll bother the ladies. If you have an attitude...
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    First date in years

    Gentlemen, After a long and protracted isolation from women (the details of said isolation are for another post) I have finally decided to put my6self out there. Found this website about a year ago, in addition to others, read the bible and I've internalized a lot of what is...
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    new guy, wife treats me like ****

    He is my son, though i did once have my doubts. In any event, I'm the one who wanted to have a kid with HER. i was that much in love. I was so happy when she told me she was pregnant. It was all i ever wanted. To father and raise a child with the woman i loved more than anything. Yeah, right...
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    Aphorisms

    Aphorism 3: Once a woman has lost interest/attraction for you, she will jettison and ignore you with the same intensity and veracity that she pursued you with during the initial stages of attraction.
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    new guy, wife treats me like ****

    I was divorced in 2007. Other than a substantial loss on A property we owned, i walked away relatively unscathed. No alimony, no kids. I was lucky. She could have cleaned me out. I moved in with a woman. Everything was great. Lovey dovey, sex all the time. She threw me out as soon as she got...
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    Aphorisms

    Not really a discussion topic or anything of that nature. Just a thought i had. I may post more from time to time. Feel free to add your own or reactions to. The first one is facetious. Aphorism 1: Women are always late and seldom wrong.
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    V Smell to Detect Cheating Woman

    I believe the correct terminology is skunk p#$$y
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    should i be eating peanut butter

    Or too fattening?
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    Today so far....

    Gents, Wanted to put this out there. Mind you, I haven't done anything like this in years, so even this is a real victory for me. Went grocery shopping r this morning. See this one look at me as I enter the store. Mid 30s, Brown hair, not bad, maybe a six. Anyway, she walks past me, looks...
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    advice and/or opinions, please

    Thanks. Think I knew this all along. I could literally feel the time slipping through my fingers. As someone once said, I sit here doing nothing and time keeps drifting by like s#&t down a river. That's scary....
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    advice and/or opinions, please

    Gents, Anyone have any suggestions as to how I can get out of this funk I've been in for the last five years? Background: I'm 42, divorced, one child (not with my ex wife though I am no longer with my son's mother either), no girlfriend. I'm a recovering drunk and druggie so I have no real...
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    Nice Guys Do Not Finish Last

    Wow. She is classy, class e! Where can I get her number?
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