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The key word here is "friend". She's not going to make it easy for you, she like you said wants to lure you in for attention manipulation. Just reply back "thanks" or nothing at all. That's what I would do.

I'm in my early twenties. I dated a few 18 year olds, and they were the most immature, spoilt, and selfish I've ever dated. They're just too young to be taken seriously. For an LTR? Probably not. But if it's just for fun then yes.

Sorry but if you dress like that in public then stuff like that is what you have to deal with. Yes, it would be great if people could mind their own business, but they don't and that's not going to change. Another thing to factor in. When women look at you, more often than not they look at you...

I know a few guys who chose club promoting as their career choice. One of them is now the events manager of a popular club in my city. He's like a mini celebrity and everyone knows him. He's in his early thirties. That's the only real path I see taking if you want that high-school/college type...

You know what to do. Either stay sober, or drink and become a lunatic. Looks like you can only be one of two extremes, there's no grey area. If the pain of staying sober overwhelmes the pain of being so dangerously drunk, then drink. If vice versa, then stay sober. You have no other choices...

The most glaring red flags are the self harming, daddy issues, exes STILL in the picture, loves drama, and failing to have a healthy LTR multiple times. To see all those red flags at once should send you in alert mode from the start. But usually you should also get a gut feeling, if you get an...

Yea probably is. Defo cluster B. Must be worse now after staying in the messed up music industry for so long.

NEW RECORD FOR LONGEST POST EVER MADE ON SOSUAVE Haha. But to be honest I read the first few paragraphs, and it seems she's at least a little bit off. Obviously if someone admits to having mental problems what more proof do you need? Now I admit, she's not full blown bpd horror story. But she...

That's wierd. Empaths are people who can empathise and pick up other peoples emotional state by being around them. Imo, every person should be capable of this in order to function healthily and positively in society. In fact, most people do have these traits, except for the extreme few who are...

If you're talking about clubs here's how I do it. Look for eye contact, obvious checking you out first. Approach these girls, theres more chance of pulling these girls than girls who are not checking you out. If you don't see any of the girls checking you out, no worries, just go for who you...

Not only can it be ptsd accumulated from the relationship but a bunch of other things. Op can have deep issues of his own. This can be taking satisfaction from helping or fixing someone. Essentially it is like having a lover, and taking care of an immature child, all mixed in one big rancid...

I've dated a girl like this. Like yours she self harmed, along with a history of being abused. She was crazy, and like your girl, she did wierd ****. I can guarantee that you will waste your time, peace of mind, and sanity if you let her stay around much longer. In short, yes she is playing...

Exactly. Real friends wont choose a girl, regardless how attractive she is, over a friend they have had for over 15 years! Not only that, but I'm sure at least one of them can pick up the signs of crazy in her, who would want to pick a nutcase over a long term buddy for God's sake? If they...

Interesting insight into a bpds mentality. I was quoting my bpd ex when i said that. I did not give it much thought as to if it applies to all BPDs. She used that lie to lure me back in after she treated me in a disrespectful way when we were together. But who knows, like you said she may deep...

I laugh at the guys who are foolish enough to think these types of girls are just normal and it is the guy who is "beta" for letting her be the way she is. There is no "letting" or "allowing" of their behaviour, they will still try to wreak chaos into your life regardless of how stoic or...

Right now, it's extremely crucial that you get an objective perspective on this, even just a bit. It's hard, but look at what she did objectively. When you look at it objectively, or even better, ask someone else to, you will find that you come to a conclusion as to what she truly is, and that...

Bleu de Chanel. The only cologne I actually like wearing, and I don't like most colognes. Unlike most colognes the smell is pleasing, even after wearing it for 6+ hours. Masculine yet unique. Every woman who has smelt it on me has liked it.

I will take a 7/10 with a good attitude over a 10/10 with a bad attitude anyday. For me personally, the 10/10 women always end up being highly narcissistic, or screwed up, or plain boring. I have only met a couple woman who had genuine breathtaking 10/10 looks and a good head on her shoulders...

It was never my intention to make approaching sound bad in my post, my aim was to show the negatives of "mass approaching", and state that you will be more succsessful if you approach women who are feeling you. I believe approaching in GENERAL is something you need to do. The majority of men...

If she was legitemately crazy, and you had little to no experience before her, I completely understand why you feel the way you do. Crazy girls can do a number on experienced guys, let alone inexperienced ones! You probably ignored or weren't smart enough to spot the signs of crazy when they...