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I have only done nofap for one week. I'll try doing it for longer. I also need to work on my confidence. Anytime I get rejected, or I see another guy get with a girl that rejected me, I feel my confidence get crushed. At that point to tend to go into confusion why they rejected me, cause I know...

I have learnt that stress and anxiety are affecting my life, and have recently made it my mission to significantly reduce them. I tend to worry a lot during social interactions, whether I am coming across the way I want to. For example I worry if I'm coming across as unlikable or awkward at...

Last night I went to the club again. Ended up dancing with this random group of 4 guys and 1 girl. The 1 girl leaned over to me and explained that it's her birthday. She looked a bit tipsy, and she was quite touchy and flirty. As soon as we are about to get really close and touchy with...

From your original post I just got the impression you care how you were perceived by women since you did not want them to see you as shy/weak. So I think it was safe to assume you still want to attract women, and most likely deal with them in your life. Otherwise why would you have cared how you...

As a man these things are all the motivation you need to talk to women or socialise in general: not end up all alone forever, gain a close group of friends, have a woman by your side to support you through life, and fulfill your romantic and sexual needs. Regardless if you're introverted or not...

If you're introverted then that's who you are. Accept that about yourself. But being introverted does not mean you are doomed with women. An introvert can be social, and a good communicator. All introvert means is that you need a certain amount of alone time in the day to feel energised...

It's been 5 months.... My bet is that in that time frame she has definitely banged/sucked off a good number of other guys. Considering this, it would be a bit desperate of you to go out of your way for a bang.

Dude, tell tale signs are there: molestation in past, self harm, idealising you with the possesiveness, general crazy behaviour. She may not be bpd per se, but she most likely has cluster b character traits. You should leave by slowly fading away. Cancel dates every now and then. Make...

I currently live in my mother's house. I am doing this to save a bit of money before I move out. I contribute to bills and taxes already. But I do also give lifts with my car if I'm needed. Yesterday I gave a lift to my mother to a store. She said I should drive her back home from there...

The thing I fear, and worried about is that I don't think anything will be enough for me to settle down. There's a problem in manogamy itself, that it's not natural. Women's true nature means they will bang who they want to bang. They will do it behind your back, and they'e the best at covering...

Nice one. I'm a fan of alpha male strategies. What he's saying is totally true. One thing I disagree with him so far is waiting for a whole week before you text a girl. This is just massive overkill if you are trying to raise her interest. I learnt this the hard way recently.

I feel like absolute shiit now. I hate failing like this. Its so frustrating to think i was so close on having succsess but then I blew it... All I needed to do was listen to my emotions more, and do what I really wanted to do which was contact her sooner. But all of this pickup advice, even...

This interesting for me to hear. I have had a relatively absent father figure in my childhood, yet the symptoms you are describing closely resemble mine too. Looks like absence from either parent can cause similar problems. Man, so many things can screw up a child. I try not to be bitter...

This is so frustrating. I would have liked to take her out on Valentine's. But people will say that it' stupid to take someone out who you only merely banged once. Also when I show my true caring self the girl ends up ditching me anyway. That's why I texted late and didn't take her out. Now I'm...

Alpha male strategies on YouTube says we should not text a girl for a week or so to raise interest? Also I really don't know what to say when i text for no reason. I hate small talk it seems so pointless.

Dude it's just that we had good sexual chemistry. And i felt like we got along well to a certain degree. The least I wanted was a casual but exclusive fk buddy relationship with her. Im just dissapointed she didnt feel the same.

She ended up replying. We ended up going to the same club, not together but with our separate group of friends. I told her when I arrived inside the club, then I asked where in the club she is at. She replied saying that she doesn't even know where she is. (Probably trying to make herself...