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Who cares? If you really care that much what people think of you, you've got some work to do. If they think, "what the hell?" then that's they're problem. You're fun, good (didn't say nice), and have a life. Who wouldn't want to get to know you. Just because you have a shy reputation...

Here's what you do to get over the nervousness: make conversation with strangers, any strangers, even guys, at first. With time, it becomes easier. I had an interview the other day, and another guy came in who I had never seen before and decided to practice and we had about a 15 minute...

Just play it cool; don't do anything different. Keep your plan, because I don't think someone would come up with that kind of excuse if it wasn't legitmat. On the other hand, it may have been an excuse, and if you find she has yet another one, then she is not interested.

Well, good job on the ball-grabbing and just doing it, but: You need to establish more rapport before even thinking about trying to set a date up with a girl. Also, it's better to #close a hb before you set up a date, so that you don't seem desperate or needy. If you get her number and...

Pretty much, if you open up to some random person, and they don't open back, then they aren't worth your time. That's what I've been telling myself, and it's been working wonders. This chic with a bf has greeted me twice already since we met; the only downfall is she didn't give me her number...

Well, how'd it go?

What you can do is join us here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=86985 We're halfway through the first week, but I'm sure you can join in. We're all pulling for each other, so don't give up.

Jayer, you haven't met your goal; either you stopped, or you quit posting. If you stopped, join us in Shezz's bootcamp. The first week has already started, but you can still manage. Come on man, don't quit. Keep it up, and Good luck. edit: Sorry man, just saw the date that you last...

Why don't you take some clothes with you to the gym and shower when you get done at the gym, and then meet her at Starbucks? Just a thought, but most gyms do have showers in my town, and it's a small town.

Same scenario as the last two days: I didn't eat lunch today because I wasn't hungry, and I went to Wal-Mart again. I made eye contact with everyone I saw, that would make eye contact back. I said hi to almost everyone to begin with, and then I decided to just say hi the the girls that I...

Well, it's the only one in town where I can sit, watch the game, and drink water, instead of spending money on something, and still have a good time, simply because I had already established rapport with the bartender. After I get paid, I intend to spread around a little bit. As far as my club...

Last night Well, I went to the bar to watch the game last night, and it was okay, except I wasn't in that great of moods. Well, then there were a few people at the end of the bar also watching the game, and this hb did something that made me laugh, and so all of us (probably a group of about...

Yet some more eye contact Okay, I went down to a little store close to where I live, to meet up with a friend. No one was out on my way there, but on my way back, here's what happened: I crossed the street and still needed to cross the other one. A girl was coming up the sidewalk to cross...

Day 2, Part 3: Well, I left work early--I had some problems with one someone who is over me (not my supervisor, but still), so I decided to handle it by going home early so that nothing would affect my work or theirs. So I stopped off at the library on my way home--and unfortunately it's...

Day 2, Part 1: I had an interview for a promotion this morning in a different department/location from where I currently work. As I was waiting in the waiting room, a man came for an interview for a different position. I decided to get warmed up a little bit, so I open with a generic...

With the exception of liquor, this is a good tip. Also, if you say hi to everyone you run into at a boring place, it will get you comofortable enough to open up to anyone you want to.

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It will be worth a date report for sure. Let us know what her reaction is.

Isn't there some club you could go to within walking distance--or some kind of department store. For the weekends. Anyways, good luck, you can do it--we're pulling for you, and us.

At this point, I would be upset, but I would get over it rather quickly. That evening, I'd probably go to a bar or club or whatever, just to have some fun. I'm of the opinion now that it doesn't completely matter to me what other people (especially hot chics) think of me. Obviously, it...