I've been following the movement since it started as I use youtube a lot.
Its one of the most hilarious things I've ever seen online.
I can't hate on them as much as others do simply because during my time following and laughing at the movement I learned that Dwayne the big guy actually...
"The opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference."
What everyone here is missing is that to be effected negatively by a BPD doesn't ALWAYS mean you are still in love with them.
Similarly to how a rape victim can barely stand to face their attacker in court and shakes...
-Tons of guy "friends" who aren't really all friends but guys like you that are made to think that they are her only man while all the other guys are just "friends" of hers.
-Strong abandonment fear.
-Self injury signs such as scars from cutting or burning themselves.
-Alcohol or drug abuse...
Though its tough as hell to hold yourself back from violence in situations like this trying what PRMoon suggested first and hoping the guy swings on you first is probably the second best tactic next to simply walking away.
You can get right up in the face of a drunk guy who calls your girl a...
This happens a lot to Christians as the religion creates a guilt complex around sex.
Also it could happen to guys with an inferiority complex where they at one point in their life absolutely pedastalized women as goddesses due to their feminist brainwashing and training.
To actually engage...
"Preying on weakness isn't AFC?"
If you are talking about your specific situation it was only an AFC act of preying on weakness on the guy's part if you and she had been having knock down drag out verbal jousting matches, she was emotionally fried from it at which point the guy took advantage...
"I can't imagine a bigger AFC move than taking another man's wife. There are so many women out there, that wreaks of simple weakness."
If a guy actively persues a married woman instead of going after single chicks I can agree with you but in the case where a married woman persues a guy then...
"If my bitc* cheats, you should be thinking about shaking the hand of the guy who's **** was ramming up inside her filling her womb with man juice - you should be shaking his hand for helping to expose the who*re that she is and with that you now have an opportunity to reflect why your making...
http://www.amazon.com/Snakes-Suits-When-Psychopaths-Work/dp/0060837721
There's a good book for you Pimp.
The people you work for fit the criteria.
Find another job ASAP or pay the price.
I agree with the poster there named "Lurker".
I also think the entire story was just made up by some feminist trying to prove a point.
The point being that its men that don't really know what we want.
LOL @ that.
Its the other way around sweeties.
A "bit" of drama is just fine.
The problem is with these monsters its not just a "bit" but a whole damned ocean of drama and chaos!
Its the difference between someone smoking a harmless marijuanna joint and someone else going to get high on crystal meth.
Marijuanna will give you a nice buzz...
"I feel like I'm by myself on this."
Thats one of life's test of a true man.
Can you stand alone and not back down on your convictions?
Be there for your buddy and help him make the right decision and get this piece of trash out of his life no matter how much whining lesser men and emotional...
"I was wondering how others here react to that situation."
If you judge that the guy isn't just joking with you then you first shove him.
If he gets right back in your face go ahead and slug him.
Though if you are worried about his buddies attacking you just do your best to back off and...
"My question is: How does this square with the idea that once you're in the friend zone, you can't get out? You're saying he's either gay or a possible fvck. What if he's in the friend zone?"
Well if a guy is in the friendzone its 100% because he's allowed himself to be there.
In the AFC sense...
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