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How do you guys deal with frequently thinking about a girl you hadn't seen in a while and ended on bad terms with? I still think about a girl from way back but it's not really from a romantic perspective anymore (although I do occasionally when I hear an AFC song) but more from the...

I think she's playing games. Dump her. This is only the beginning of the end. More problems will come later.

From your post, the guy seems pretty gay. But are you sure you aren't just rationalizing and seeing more gayness than is actually there because you are worried about him and your girl possibily messing around?

- If you are skinny, eat like crazy and start lifting weights. Don't do any cardio. - If you are fat, lose some weight. Don't eat more than a meal a day until you starting seeing results. - If you have acne, buy some proactive solution. - If your hair is crappy, then get a haircut...

I'm just playing devil's advocate, so don't flame me. Think about it: 1. Waits at least six days to call her after getting the number but he has a hard time waiting at least six minutes. 2. Surrounds himself with several women, when he would rather be with just one. 3. Watches...

No offense, but this is the dumbest thread I've read. How many guys here have been afraid of approaching girls you liked? Did that mean you weren't interested? I don't think so.

Good tip. As you already guessed, I'm in a similar situation. The girl I like seems annoyed whenever I look at her, but appears interested whenever I appear preoccupied or if I'm talking to someone (especially another girl). I'm so confused!

A part of says no, but then again, my dad was somehow able to pull it off.

Yawn. I don't think even a DJ can control how a woman is going to behave. It's already been said before that the best you can do is control your reaction to her behavior. Losing the bitterness and victim mentality is a start. Tranforming yourself into another "character" is pointless...

"You're like a sister to me..."

Yep, it's time us DJs got that chip off our shoulder. However, I still HATE my oneitis from way back when :D

It's pointless. Attraction is a MUST. It doesn't matter how big her boobs are or how tight her butt is, if you aren't attracted to her, then it's not going to do anything for you. Plus, one party will get hurt. Don't bother.

Thanks for the advice guys. I kind of punked out today but I did stick around to observe if she left with anybody but she took off in her own car. As far as I know, she may be available but I'll have to check for a ring next time. I didn't really have an opportunity to move in because she was...

There is a cute girl that works at the library I am currently studying at now. She hasn't been working here long and I have only talked to her to borrow stuff. Now, I want the number. She's pretty hot also, I just saw her bend over and I was like "DAMN!!!" Basically, this place closes up...

Nope. I just heard 'Got Tha Feelin' on youtube.com and it's not the song. I think the group I'm referring to was sort of a one-hit wonder. Thanks for the help, though.

Please help. This was a hip hop song that was pretty popular around 1998 or 1999 but I can't really describe the beat online. The beat goes something like na, na-na-na-na, na-na-na-na-nunna. There is a repeated line at the end that goes either something like "It's the S-W-A-P" or "It's the...

Shiftkey is right: Some AFCness is natural because as humans, we naturally desire to be in a euphoric state, which is created by being around things that produce pleasure. Being around a girl we like is very pleasurable. Looking at a girl from afar, thinking about her constantly, getting...

Girls don't have that much power. Besides, they face the chance of getting their asses beat hard if they choose the wrong man. Be glad you are a guy.

I am being serious. Ever wonder why we receive more unwanted attention than desired attention? It's because we all want what we can't have. Whatever you are doing to attract unwanted attention, incorporate those actions around girls who you want to get with.

I respect your input DonJuanForever, but I think that the challenge should be established from the get-go. My advice is mainly geared toward AFCs so do whatever works for you. I just turned down a girl I wasn't interested in. I thought about what I did to get her interested and I realized...