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I appreciate your honesty. I have a question about your post-- you suggest she's looking for a provider, but then suggest she will burn me in the near future. In what way and why?

I guess I just have hope that because we've had our highest "up" recently (and the fact that I noticed she deleted the random guys) that she's fully locked-in now. Again, maybe Im a fool

Well, she told me I was amazing and everything AFTER we got over our "down" moment. So she was flirting with guys online BEFORE we had our "up" moment. Im not trying to justify it, just explaining what happened. I have hope that maybe now she has "turned the corner" so to speak. But I see alot...

Out of curiosity, you consider this online behavior to be a breach of loyalty? Being that she's given me such a high now "youre so amazing" "im so happy i met you, i finally have found happiness" etc. im hoping she turned the corner from her "promiscuous online presence" when things were going...

On our 2nd or 3rd date, we talked about our pasts. She seemed pretty adamant on being loyal and her feelings on loyalty. Would you consider something like she did to be "emotional cheating"?

I apologize for the late reply. I can't help but to agree with your post. I dont know if this behavior will happen again (the logical side of me says-- it probably will ESPECIALLY if i dont say anything about it) I just want to believe that she REALLY IS set on me now and wont let our ups and...

In the very beginning (first couple weeks) she was tagging me in stauses, then she went a bit cold for a couple months (when we were rocky) and thats when I noticed her adding/flirting with the random guys...but now she deleted those random guys, made our relationship status visible, is tagging...

Just to understand this correctly-- youre saying shes bipolar or a narcissist? Also, what is your definition of love bombing and mirroring? Thirdly, when you mention the evil behind the mask, im assuming youre saying shes evil?

The comment about how we should still be in the honeymoon phase 4 months in-- isnt the length of the honeymoon phase a bit subjective? I mean, can't some people say it lasts 2 weeks, some say 1 month, some say 2 months? I thought the beginning months of a relationship youre ironing out the...

you think she agreed because she was vulnerable?

Well I think what she's doing now is showing that she does value her time, Im not one of those jerky aholes thats going to play her

wolf, im going to respond to your comment more in depth, but I wanted to know your thoughts on why you wouldve dumped her already?

Care to elaborate?

well thats an interesting thought. But isnt the duration of the honeymoon period purely subjective? Could be 2 weeks, 3 months, 6 months, am i right? Also, she didnt know that I knew she was adding those guys and flirting with them. I found that out by doing some snooping when I noticed her...

Why do you believe it wont last? And if you think it wont last, when do you see it ending? Few months? Several months? A year? Im just curious to hear your side

i knew some people here would object to us getting exclusive so quickly. and i agree that having ups and downs a few months in isnt a great sign.. but all i know is that right now she's telling me how she's so happy that she finally found happiness, etc. its hard not to take a compliment like...

I appreciate your honesty. Im just wondering what makes you think they miss the challenge of those types? What makes you say that?

I met girlfriend about 4.5 months ago. We jumped into things pretty quickly. It only took us a couple of weeks before we became exclusive. (Fast, I know. I pretty much asked her if she wanted to be exclusive, and she agreed.) We became exclusive about 4 months ago. A few weeks before we met, she...