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Time will tell right? I know I sound beta but I dont have the balls to break it off. Hell, she trusts me to watch her kid. That must mean she trusts/respects me on some level, no?

That makes sense The highlighted part is what makes me raise my eyebrow about my situation. When she suddenly goes on these mini Like sprees on these guys pictures. They're good looking guys, at that. Some she knows, some I don't think she's even met. Just found them online somehow. But they're...

harsh. so you believe she will stay with me because of the stability and resist the urge of getting with other guys? (if thats what she wants)

Not saying that Im okay with either of those scenarios. Just pointing out that the opinions seem to be split between those two things. To be blunt, Im probably not healthy honestly. I have alot of crazy exes. I used to always point the finger but if im being honest with myself, I mustve been a...

Is it as bad as it may seem?

In her other relationships it was usually the guy who screwed her over. It wasnt her choice to remove these guy's from her life. Also none of them had kids of their own, like I do.

Another interesting development...this morning I was on instagram. Without the intent of stalking her, I look at my activity feed and see she Liked one of her "guy friend's" pics and she Followed....one of her exes from a few years ago...

The funny thing is, I know she's been RELYING on a man to MAKE her happy. She has a void and she relied on a man (I guess me in this case) to make her happy

It seems opinions are split in this thread. Some believe she's stringing me along and is using me as a rebound with terminal value, others think she's trying to manipulate me and lock me down for her own comfort

Yeah. She's not the type to Like everything she sees. This particular guy, she ripped through his IG and liked a bunch of his pics dating back to a year ago, this was a few months ago when we were rocky. Things seem on the up and up right now, but I noticed she liked three recent selfies he...

So you think stability with this kind of woman is impossible? Even though she claims that's what she's wanted? (Stability/marriage.) I know she sees alot of her friends getting married. The funny thing is I have a history of crazy exes. Just a couple of months before me and her met, I had a...

Interesting What's do u think of the ballbusting story I told a few posts up?

I appreciate the responses thus far. I know of the other issues, but as far as the ballbusting, do u see a serious issue with the ball busting she does? I posted an example a couple posts up.

(Trying not to make one lengthy comment, so Im splitting up my responses a bit.) This was a couple of weeks before we had our highest "up" cycle of our relationship. This high "up" cycle occured a couple of weeks after the vacation. This was when I noticed one night her Friend Count went down...

As far as your comment and Sazc's comment about the ballbusting; yes, ballbusting isn't a feminine trait. She's a bit of a tomboy. The type of tomboy who can dressup and be girly when she needs to be. Yeah, the ball busting seems harsh at times. Like the one example I gave you guys. Another...

I feel like with the options she has, including however many FWB that she has stashed away (as we are in a relationship), if she really wasnt interested she wouldnt have been in a relationship with me for 6 months. Are you going to come back at me saying "maybe she was tired of being single and...

as far as the mocking goes, she likes to bust balls. thats a part of her personality. she's even admitted that. but yes she can be pretty blunt about it. her interest doesnt seem to be waning at the moment, well other than her questionably liking some more of this guys pics

what makes you think her interest level is low right now? the fact that she Liked some more of that guys pics?

but she's wanted stability for herself and her kid. Do you think she'd ingratiate herself and her kid into a life with me and my kid, if she wasnt serious about it? If we break up, she knows her kid loses me (another guy to walk out of her kids life) and the connection her kid has built with my...

This is an update on my relationship, for those of you who have followed my previous threads. I'll write this out in bullets to keep it as condensed as I can: -GF and I became official a few weeks after a punk she was dating screwed her over (she has a history of falling for prettyboy-badboys.)...