i was in this situation with one of my exes a long time back and it's simple, really. I was trying to complicate my life by accepting her being bossy and masculine. I just decided that enough was enough and ended it. She apologized and begged that we gave it another shot but why try to change a...
i think i flaked on more girls than being flaked on. I flake usually because I'm so accustomed to setting up dates after chatting for a bit on OLD. The day before the actual meetup, I would look through the girl's pictures again and realize, **** it, not worth the effort especially when she has...
Yea, it sucks man. Even though you know what needs to be done and this feeling is only temporary, for some reason, your body didn’t seem to get the memo, putting you through this roller coaster of emotions. Hang in there and take care.
I have never done this. Do you get better results by doing this in terms of establishing frame and value? I always lie for a bit with her head on my chest after peeing.
Ghosting is now part of my toolset because:
1) most girls can’t take the hint and will keep pestering you even after telling them I’m not interested. It’s just way easier instead of going back and forth and having to answer their qns. also, since I’m not effing them at that point, I don’t see...
used to be a meal ticket plenty of times in the past during first dates. I would be arranging a coffee date with the girl but once we meet, she’d be telling me that she’s hungry and I’d succumb to it and even asked her where she would like to eat! Happens more than I’d like to admit.
I never...
Everytime someone mentions NYE party, I immediately think about them wretched garden-tools seen in this dailymail article:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7842221/amp/Its-January-thirst-Boozy-New-Years-Eve-revellers-ring-roaring-Twenties.html
I agree with most of the comments here. There’s no way to understand what’s going through her mind but most probably her plans with her no1 dude fell through so she’s going down her list to see who’s free to take her out.
also, if this is the level of enthusiasm she has for you at the...
Hey man, I did followed some of your past posts and you seem to be a well put together kinda guy.
i could care less about the moral aspects of being involved with a married woman but it’s rarely worth it and there are far easier and fun ways to get with a girl.
If you’re doing it to test...
I usually talk about boundaries once she brings up the idea of us being committed. This usually happens after we’ve been dating a for a few months. Usually after I can no longer tell her ‘let’s see where this goes’.
Easier to be firm on boundaries when she’s asking you for a relationship. If...
Too many times I’ve agreed to be in a committed relationship without setting boundaries. Because I thought she might leave me and the sex would stop. I’ve learnt from that experience that you should always define what those boundaries are.
It’s better this way because I just don’t want to deal...
I had this problem a while back after surgery where I was bed bound and didn’t really have the appetite to eat. I forced myself to drink protein shakes just because it was easier to take in. My advice is just worry about recovering, the gym will be there once you’re ready.Like the rest have...
I came across this awhile ago and your post kinda reminds me of this even though it’s not related. One of their strategies is cheating while in a relationship too.
I get what you mean and I feel like my style is similar to yours. I also know of other guys who finds success in direct and ‘striking while it’s hot’. It all boils down to your personality and finding the method that fits your worldview.
for e.g, when I approach IRL, I would place feelers and...
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I hope so too. The more men who chose to no longer tolerate crap, the better it is for the rest of us. I’m not holding my breath but it’s definitely the right step forward.
So true. I find that those months when im really immersed with projects at work followed by going to the gym in the evening, those are the times when I felt really confident and mentally strong.
When you hit a lull period is when you feel unmotivated, lazy and you find yourself very insecure...
Nothing wrong with dumping her. It just means you have standards with who you associate with in your life. Spinning plates require time and effort so it’s better to invest it on someone who at least have some morals. I would do the same as well. You should totally judge them cos women judge men...
If you begin to suspect that most likely she’s cheating. It’s your gut telling you that something’s wrong. I have experienced this before and I just walked the **** away because it’s not worth the effort. That time and emotions is better invested elsewhere.
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