change locations is always an option. not simple, but for some, it's a good choice.
are you in US, some of the metro areas are stacked against men with twice as many men in the dating market as women. an average guy has a difficult time with numbers like that. top guys will not have trouble as they will still get enough and have the ability to steal if needed. this is one situation where you want advice from guys like you, not guys that are killing it. you can get better and improve but you can not become tall, wealthy, super confident, or charming quickly.
being tenacious and persistent is always good, but also be real.
- wait to get lucky
- keep improving to eventually reach a higher SMV(money, status, frame, body). this is a sure thing; eventually.
- social circle of some kind where you can present a high relative value.
- play the numbers game until you find some or one.
- move to another city, state, country.