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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    How dare you claim that I do things that "the woman" should be doing. Since when is it bad to display your affection? People on here are so hellbent on alpha-vs-beta And how dare you say I'm merely just an emotional crutch for her until she's tired of my "stability"
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    Why would somebody come on a forum like this and write out fake, detailed stories? I know I wouldn't. A person must have no life at all to do something like that. What about me writing her name in the sand makes me less of a man?
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    Well Im not staying out of fear. Im staying because I love her. She had a rough upbringing, promiscuous past, and when I met her, she was an unhappy person. People on here like to say i have a save-a-ho complex. I've had my good share of bad relationships and I guess we both met eachother at the...
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    I take it you view that as a red flag. It was questionable to me
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    If u think im a troll then why did u answer me in the first place? I'm serious, I want to know.
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    I understand your points. You mention her not being invested in the relationship by entertaining other men due to re-adding people from her past on social media-- but we've planned out a road trip to Miami next weekend (us and our friends.) Would a person who's not interested in me or the...
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    Can I ask what about my girlfriend triggers you so hard? Does she remind you of a girl from your past? She definitely has had some questionable behavior, but it seems to hit home for you
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    She's charming and sexy, and there's just something intangible about her that drew me in. Most people don't come on these forums and discuss the good parts of their relationships. Most people come on here when they have problems or worries. Right?
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    Not too much else that I haven't shared. Let me think.. When we first started dating she mentioned a couple times in conversation about her messed up childhood and said how she's "ruined." She said how she used to push people away who tried to be there for her, but I think she grew out of...
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    Wow. Do you people agree with cityboy here?
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    It seems alot of people on here recently have been scolding people for diagnosing others with a mental illness. I do know she had a dysfunctional/damaged childhood, mental illness runs in her family, and she enjoyed alot of sex when she was single. So it's definitely not out of the question...
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    Some are former sexual partners but some were also former platonic friends which is the headscratcher for me. And she doesn't really "hide me" either on facebook. If we go out and do stuff with the kids she'll upload an album on facebook and include us all in the pics. I just don't understand...
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    I looked up HPD and that scared me honestly. She could really fit with that category. It said HPD victims try hard to seek attention/validation from others. Which I think she may have been doing when she kept Liking a few particular guys pics. I'll admit, I knew her family life, or lack...
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    So essentially you're saying she's just using me for the meantime, and that she will eventually dump me and go back to banging her FWBs for a while?
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    I'm not sure if she was the one who deleted them in the first place or vice versa. Things ended poorly between most of these people. For example, the FWB was a jerk who screwed her over. The platonic male friend was a guy who wanted her sexually but she only liked him on a platonic level. So he...
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    Back again, my GF is adding people from her past

    At what point did I say she's my ex? I said my GF
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