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Sure they are approached but online you don't have kino, alcohol, hot women hanging out, and whole host of other mitigating factors. Not to mention the ability to call out women in an interactive manner. This is the area where guys and women fail. Socialization and the art of seduction. OLD...

My guess is that part of it is the environment that you are in that lends itself to women acting this way and part might be your ability to filter. You slept with 250 women, which suggests you aren't looking for a relationship with all of them. So it's no unreasonable to think that many of them...

It's not an either/or situation. Does going out and meeting women prevent bad behavior or bad attitudes from women? Not at all. That being said going out evens out the playing field to an extent. Whereas with online dating unless you look like a model you'll be judged on what a girl thinks of...

I would argue that a man's logic gets clouded when he allows a woman's emotion to override his logic. Getting into bad relationships and staying them is poor logic from a male perspective, and it typically happens when a man isn't looking at things objectively I.e he's clouded by emotion.

You are presuming what you are saying is true, and my point is that true or not, it is irrelevant because you can't control another persons behavior. Is female behavior at times lamentable, disturbing etc? Sure. However, there is an endless supply of enablers, orbiters etc. So how do you...

Okay, assuming what you say is true, then what? How does bitching about it change anything for you?

You missed the boat. IDAGF is about living life on your own terms, and not doing things simply because you think it will attract women. With women the harder you try the harder you fail. The more you care the worse of you are. The point is to do things for yourself. For example, you go to the...

Depends on what you are looking for a quick lay, a FWB, or a LTR. If it's the latter then a women's personality will make a big difference.

Money can make things easier, but it comes with the cost never being sure if a woman truly likes you for you or your money.

The key is getting a plan and understanding how to move up in your industry. For example in telecom sales you probably want to get a six sigma designation. Look to try to get all relevant certifications. Try to show value to a person whose position you would like to have and be willing to...

No reason to worry about it. It either means you are viewed as cougar bait or something in style, vibe, is projecting immense maturity. You know you'd like a younger woman so when older are sniffing just be flattered and say no thank you.

The_Real_Bataman, Do not listen to those who are recommend leaving immediately. While the spirit of their message correct. You need to be legally cautious to extricate yourself from this situation in a prudent manner. That being said you must accept that your marriage is over and that you...

The big cities tend to be easier because the emphasis of wealth and power creates a lot of social climbers so as an older man it is much easier to use wealth and power to your advantage. The downside is that many women are users so the chances of finding a woman who is interested in you and not...

At the end of the day a man is only as good as his integrity. Stand up for what you believe in. As for women and the dating game as you've noticed there's a lot of bs going on. Trying to think of it as a game where the winner can mess with the other without going into reprehensible behavior...

If it works for you then proceed. However if you find it isn't working for you then skip to the pub date and bounce to food. Typically coffee to a pub is big change of states and most women don't feel comfortable because coffee implies talking and a pub implies a sexually charged state.

As Nismo-4 would say your princess is another castle. Keep in mind that a girl that likes you won't confuse you. Think of this girl like a vampire. Your attention is equivalent to human blood. The more attention you give the stronger she becomes and the weaker you become. Withholding...

It's hard because desparation is a stinky cologne. If you are still in high school try to hang out with reasonably good looking women. Try to meet up with where alcohol is involved. The one caveat is to watch yourself with a girl who is so inebriated that she can't make legal decision. Buzzed...

OLD has jumped the shark so to speak. When it first came out it was great because people were using it because they wanted to be part of the phenomena of online dating. Now, it has reverted to its natural form, which is an ego validation for women who typically have issues in the real world...

1. Coffee dates aren't a good idea. They are poor for escalation and too static. I'm suggesting something overly elaborate here but change your date venues. Hikes are good, amusement parks, wine bars, rock climbing, etc. Try to have at least one of the following action, alcohol, and/or...

You are 19, which is an age where you should be opening yourself for any and all opportunities. Relationships with women should not be taken seriously. You should be focused on figuring out your career goals and life goals. What most men do not figure out is that loneliness has little to do...