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I've had the best success dating in my 30's. I never defined my dating success with how many extremely hot 23 year olds I could pull, or lay counts, or PUA statistics. I defined it with how much fun I was having with the women I was able to pull. Not all of them were 7+, but many were, and the...

I've read a lot of your posts, you were pretty active on the "height shaming" thread a while back that actually forced me to take a hiatus from this forum. You're "positions" are typical incel black pill platitudes with only tenuous grounding in truth. I'm not interested in hearing you defend them.

What's JBW?

I would say a lot of your posts are pretty bitter and jaded, actually. It's not simply "I've grown tired of the dating game, I'm more focused on other things right now." There's a ton of "women only want tall men" "women only want rich men" "women just want free dinner" "if you're not mega Chad...

Do you seriously believe you're the only man who's had sh!tty things happen to them from women? That you have unique insight into women that few other men have? Do you seriously believe men don't do equally sh!tty things to women? There's a growth mindset, that you can improve your game and...

Well okay, we're at least in agreement that you are black pilled. Which is a sad, and extremely unattractive, view of the world. And no, I don't think I need to be successful with women "all the time" to be happy. But you wouldn't be on an attraction forum if you weren't interested in women --...

No, you're right. She agreed to a date with you because she found you physically appealing on some level. But good-looking guys talk themselves out of sex all the time. Again, another sweeping totalitarian statement that is patently untrue. I've known classically handsome men who were just...

Robert, you've got a lot of hangups about women and you fairly consistently present a black pill perspective on women and dating. You're definitely not alone here on this forum, but you really need to get that handled if you're going to be happy, forget getting laid. As is common with red/black...

Most women who take a man up on his invitation for a date have the minimum level of physical attraction for him to have sex with him on the first date. It doesn’t require you to be “mega Chad.” I am not mega Chad by any means. I’d say 50-75% of my 1st dates have historically resulted in some...

Thanks bud, I just need to stay away from the pathetic black pill threads.

If she asks your last name, tell her, then ask her hers. Build from there. In my case, I have an Irish last name, but I don't look particularly Irish. I can then tell her a little about myself. Then I ask her hers. Usually Italian or Hispanic. "Nice, do you cook good Italian/Latin food? I'm...

Now this is my kind of thread! Surprised 48 Laws of Power didn’t make it onhere. Pride and Prejudice, and Sense and Sensibility, by Jane Austen. Entertaining, they give good insight into female mindsets, they help you develop social acuity, and they’re actually entertaining reading...

You’re right, a 36 year old virgin is likely not going to suddenly start being promiscuous. In fact she’s probably so hung up about sex that she’s going to make you endlessly wait, and endlessly prove yourself to her, that you’re the perfect guy and it’s the perfect moment. So you should...

Calibrate the dominance game and order-giving to the individual woman. A woman with daddy issues, who grew up in a matriarchal household and resents male leadership, will not tolerate being told what to do for very long. She will create problems for you. Trust me on that.

She will drop her panties 'like that' for the right guy. She will show up to a date with a nice guy looking for "long term potential" like yourself, and excuse herself to the bathroom to wipe off that dude's *** dripping down her thigh. Believe it. This is your problem, right here. You are...

She wasn’t his wife. And she is a serial cheater. Look her up. Everyone calm the fvck down.

Again, you’re answering your own question. Trust your own intuition on what went wrong. You don’t need the red pill echo chamber here telling you the same boilerplate “ignore block delete spin more plates” advice.

Just answer her question. One word answer, tell her where the photos was taken. That’s it. Don’t follow up with a question or invitation. It doesn’t matter when you respond. Remember, if you’re truly detached and not butthurt, you don’t flat-out ignore a woman unless you truly want nothing to do...

You already figured this part out. The invitation to her place to be alone for drinks was your in. You missed that window, because you were too timid and unassertive. This turned her off. But I get you, sometimes it's hard to read women who give no signals. A good way to escalate, without going...

Honestly this forum is such a fvcking drain sometimes. All this negativity, anger, insecurity, self-loathing, self-pity, victimhood. **** is hopeless. You guys finally did me in.