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This is what attracted her in the first place. I'm not going to change that, I want what I want. Just because she wants me to change that, doesn't mean I will be willing to, just for her and her experiences. I'd rather find someone to accept who I am, my decisions and love me for my...

She told me she loved me and I continued to play games by incorrectly giving her more more competition anxiety. I tried to get her to be exclusive and failed. It worked countless times in the past, but this one didn't bite. Live and learn to adapt and adjust to who you are dating. I...

Hey man, thanks for the support. Women are replaceable, the transition in between each is the hardest part.

She went out her her way to remove everything related to me, including linkedin. Day 2 and I'm relieved No point in contacting her ever again or bein worried. The journey to rebuild myself begins today.

I'm going no contact, but I don't think I am learning from this experience.

How does one start to address the emotional and commitment issues? I've always ignored them, and never learned.

I've learned that I have insecurities, always trying to I don't know what I learned, maybe to stop playing games when someone has given their heart to you?

I was able to do it after a 4 year LTR. This one was 3 months. Day 1

I invested emotionally in her too soon, I am scared of commitment, even though I told her I wanted one drunkenly. I'm basically using her to let out all the emotions I have bottled inside that comes from an actual relationship and move on. The text that she just sent me below kills me inside...

My text this morning: 'Thank you for talking to me last night. You are an amazing friend, this quota kept me emotionally stressed for weeks and I apologize to put that in you. I truly appreciate your willingness to help. Have a safe drive and enjoy your time with xxx and Noiseless xxxx I...

I know that there is a low chance of any more progress with her in regards of a relationship - probably 10%. It was no longer worth the effort, so I just used her as an emotional tampon. I needed it really bad, even though I'm going to lose her as a romantic prospect. There are other fish in...

That's what I am going to do, look out for a PM from me ;)

We talked for 5 hours last night, the last couple I did not remember. She told me I was too controlling which my previous LTR said as well. I've been friend zoned and I'm happy with that because she was able to break down the walls and make me feel emotions after years of indifference to...

She picked it up. Case closed, she had substantial evidence that my character was not the same that she was attracted to initially. Sentence: Know that you lost a good one ; for life (FAR WORSE) - 30 Days in the SoSuave Pen for violation of BASIC human conduct Probation Considerations: -...

Yeah it's done, her text: "I would like to pick up my jacket at 10am, and also return your stuff. Thanks." Definitely liberating to say the least. "I'm out of town, can I just mail it? I don't need my stuff, you can throw it away" "I would like to pick it up tonight" "I'll leave it on my...

Refusing exclusivity, but being upset that I might see other women is her way of saying that she can eat her cake, but have it too. It doesn't work that way. Sure I may have fvcked up on the delivery, but the reasoning remains the same. She plans to hang out with her girlfriend tomorrow...

I've been debating seeing another chick. I've been so indifferent with my emotions the past few years that I lost compassion for others. That's something I want to change, I told her I wasn't going to see anyone - I'm not breaking that even though it would help tremendously with the headache...

No reason to next. She could have invested in me emotionally too far, too fast and now feels like she should protect herself. She's probably evaluating me if I am the same person she met. We will still be seeing each other at volunteering events, as long as I don't be a little b!tch boy like...

I then told her I won't be if she felt hurt by it lol It's hilarious I put myself in this very stupid situation. We'll see how this plays out.

God I'm going to stuff a Maxi pad up my ass for this shame. Rip me to shreds guys