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When was her last relationship? I think this is a fair question to ask her since she openly told you about intimacy issues. I've experienced that women who like you and see you as a potential partner are more open in telling you. It's up to you to see if she is worth the effort. This is a...

Eh, I'm asian - so my 4 inch dragon is way ragin'

I'm below average to help you guys out ;) Hasn't made anyone not want to stay

I'm not really talking down to dollar and cents. For example, I book the hotel/travel, she takes care of the activities and food. I've had woman complain about gas money when she comes to my place, even when I paid for cooking and activities. I gave her $50 and never contacted her again.

Congruence You played it cool the entire night by not giving into her advances/tests. When she asked you for that one drink, it was her way of testing is she 'has you where she wanted you.' Of course you fell for it and gave her the validation that she needed. There was no longer a desire...

Spot on, a woman worth your time will insist on 50/50, perhaps more.

I'd rather be myself rather than applying game. From experience, game works wonders when you are dealing with women that have options. We 'have to' apply game because of the hypergamous nature of women. Women who have options aren't worth your time, you are competing against the unknown...

What's really interesting is that I found someone that likes being around me, regardless of my beta ways. I did pull her emotional stings, as Des preaches, when you have a woman attracted to you, and send her on an emotional Rollercoaster (providing her with some insecurity, after she developed...

I went to an nlp seminar years ago. This guy's literally made women cry during his presentation. He probably follows up with the atendees.

I got drunk last night and we spoke for 3 hours. I don't remember much, but the lackluster text responses from my 'gf' showed that it was ugly. I resorted back to my beta ways when I found out I 'had' her. What's funny is that I only talk for hours with her when I was drunk...at night before...

I don't think her ex bf was able to screw her over emotionally. As ****y as it sounds, I don't think she thinks her previous bf is a viable partner. An yes, I'm that emotional ****up that she goes after.

Everything is going great, perhaps she is too naive to realize my past fvckups. Or...there is no magic formula to get a woman interested in you FROM THE START. She did that, everything is going great given my past AFC. What does that tell you?

I guess you guys are right. I'm simply tired of going out and meeting new women. The dates seem cumbersome after a while. After getting a taste of what a good chick is again, I chose to savour in that mindset. Whether it works out or not, I'm strong enough to move on. My brother told me...

After 5 days of being ghost on my end, I asked her to dinner Sunday. She asked if she should head to my place or meet up at the venue. As she is approaching 30, I think her biological time clock is telling her to 'make-up' as she might have perceived me as a viable partner. We met up and she...

Sometimes, you need to accomplish the goal you have set out to do, regardless of anything. Even if the objectives have changed.

After days of No Contact, she initiated a text and I gave her a brief response. She called me yesterday that I never returned. Today we had a volunteering event that I didn't sign up for. She shows up an hour after I did, not knowing I'd be there. I was being my old self, confident and funny...

Be active and be one of the leaders of a volunteering organization.

Ah gotcha, that quote on transition probably wasn't my best way to put it. It really wasnt my quote but i probably stole it because i was feeling emotional in my drunk stuper. During the 6 months between my previous 5 month relationship and this one, I never thought about the need to have a...

To start, having the emotional connection with another human being. Like the genuine kind, not what I had in the previous girls I dated when I was emotionally detached from them, like they were just 'there' Of course they dumped me and I easily went NC and moved on. Maybe we saw each other...

Before this one, I didn't need a woman. The emotional investment/attachment brought out that need for her. Why was there that uneasy feeling in my stomach? Because I cared too much. The thought of losing her scared me! And that is why I lost her. I wasn't in control of my emotions and my own...