The thing is a bad relationship will make everything worse. It's a risk.
You could date a little bit until you meet someone with a great vibe. There are plenty of overachieving women in college that are just as busy as you that have less drama than the ones with too much free time.
You don't...
I wouldn't have done this.
Would have just opened with this after a couple days. Like "Hey it's X from Y, are you free next friday/thirsday blah blah let's go eat somehting and hang out"
But if she's interested it doesn't really matter what you say/do.
I agree with the general sentiment which is to just keep going. Don't burn yourself out. Doing the 2-3 dev jobs at the same time, it's possible if you're a suer fast worker. I can do in 4 hours what many do in a week, but I take advantage of it to just have more time.
I disagree. I don't do it as my main thing, but I have messaged randoms privately before with good success rate. Most of the guys doing it are dweebs. If you're attractive and show a good lifestyle on your IG/friends commenting/etc. And she digs your vibe, you WILL get a reply.
Yeah and set your house on fire because they don't know how stoves work
This is a mid-wit problem. That means basically 99% of universities. My gf is smart and suffers from the same anxiety, but apparently I have a calming effect on her. I wouldn't ignore her outright, I just give her a...
You still need to read her and escalate accordingly. Last year I had more chicks on date #1 than I did chicks that wanted to wait for date #2/#3. But even the #2/#3 chicks, I was clear with my intentions and just let them come to me when they were ready. I'm in a relationship with one of them now.
I agree. I dated a super hot model (in my post history around october 2020) but she was literally mentally ill. Not desirable even though she was 10/10.
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